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| Sincere advice from a Sister |
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| Anonymous |
| 11/18/00 at 11:27:15 |
| slm brothers for those of you who r inshallah planing to have chldren now or in the future,this is insahllah sincere advice from me to u... if any do not like the thought of having a female first or last know that a female is mercy in her the rahm(womb) is contained a female is the one that bore u (by Allahs will) and a female is the one that will bear your children. may Allah forgive me is i have the story wrong, was there not a sahaaba(or a person) who was about of bury his daughter alive and some sand got on his chin and she wiped it away... what im getting down to is that some of us by Allahs will do not have fathers that r loving towards us... a child though it may seem, bonds with the mother more, also needs the bond of a father, if it were not so, we would not need our fathers to be around... some fathers shy away when their daughters get to their teens and r even shy to hugs or kiss them, why?? think? this will only distance your daughters away from you.... keep in mind that a child is not truley satisfied without the love of both parents. dont think oh, alhamdulillah my daughter bonds with her mother the most, inshallah she will go to her mother if she has any problems,....she may want to come to you..... what is a father who does not give love to his children, i personally think they might aswell just leave..(speaking from experience) inshallah when your daughters come to u at the age of 5 wanting a hug, hug them as tight as u can so they wish never to let go... when your daughters come to u at the age of 15 wanting a hug, hug them as tight as u can so they wish never to let go... when your daughters come to u at the age of 25 wanting a hug, hug them as tight as u can so they wish never to let go... when your daughters come to u at the age of 35 wanting a hug, hug them as tight as u can so they wish never to let go... don't loose them.....dont let them die with hatred for u, dont them die with no feelings for you these kids r your akhira... when u die do u honestly think that a kid to whom u showed no love will pray for you???? inshallah a sincere kid may say 'oh Allah forgive my parents' but what will others say who have not mercy in their hearts for you??? i've been through it i wouldn't like other kids to go throught it.... alhamdulillah, i have not experience anything like physical abuse or anything....just lack of love from a father... WaSalaam Brother please take my advice |
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| hermit |
| 11/18/00 at 13:08:05 |
| Assalam-u-Alaikum, Beautifully written, this got me deep down although I'm not gonna get married for a long time! Jazzakallah Khair for your wise words of advice, and may Allah bless you for what you have said right and forgive you for what you have said wrong. |
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| proudtobemuslim |
| 11/20/00 at 04:54:41 |
| Assalam-u-Alaikum, Just to calrify one point (in case somebody out there is wondering)... The Sahaabee who was burying his daughter alive was doing so before he converted to Islam. Jazzak-Allahu Khairan for the post... it was a good reminder and definitely good advice. Wassalam-u-Alaikum Uzer |
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| kiwi25 |
| 11/20/00 at 22:13:06 |
| assalamu alaikum, mashallah that was soooooo beuatiful, i think some brothers have read this and are too shy too respond, (im not a brother by the way), this should have been said centuries before but when u keep killing girls, whose going to grow up to woman and have babies to help keep population goig on but alhumdulilah population has been going on!! wasalam nouha:) |
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| h_m_r00 |
| 11/21/00 at 14:21:37 |
| salaam this is one of the best pieces of advice given to any one..so brothers...HEED IT WELL;) |
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| Aladdin |
| 12/16/00 at 18:44:51 |
| Salaams, Had to log in just to say Thank you! That's a lovely piece of advice which when heeded could change a future generation! Alhumdulillah! Wa-Salaams. |
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| lightningatnite |
| 12/18/00 at 14:17:27 |
| Salam :) Jazakumallahu khairan sister...thats some advice I'll never forget :) :) Wassalam :) |
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| Malika |
| 12/18/00 at 16:13:28 |
| slm My sister I agree with you. I would like to add: When your father is there to give you love and show you by example the role of men. You will grow up, marry with knowledge (of what a good man and husband is) and not have the added baggage that comes from his absence. And Allah knows best. |
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| Moe |
| 01/22/01 at 21:59:11 |
| thats some advice I'll never forget :) |
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| Safiya |
| 02/01/01 at 02:21:46 |
i'd like to add that a child and thier parents have this massive bond for the child is half of each parent(its amazing), and its sooo discusting to see them refuse to make this bond as tight as it should be.....refusing a blessing of Allah |
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