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They won't talk to me
AMLHABIBI
10/26/01 at 10:53:21
My family are none muslim and since I posted a copy of a Jihad in the paper they won't talk to me what do I do?

The url is what I posted.


http://home.talkcity.com/InspirationAv/hhabibi/index.html
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Re: They won't talk to me
Anik
10/26/01 at 14:25:27
asalaamu alaikum,

What can you do?

Keep being who you are: a muslim.  If they saw what kind of message you were trying to send, they would understand,

but it seems that they don't see...

It's hard in this situation... often, upsetting yourself over it has a negative effect on your imaan as far as i can say...

Just be adamant. asalaamu alaikum. abdullah,.
Re: They won't talk to me
eleanor
10/26/01 at 15:51:50
slm

Hi Anne Marie,
I thought the article was great! It is difficult dealing with non Muslim family members. Brother Abdullah (Anik) is a good one to talk about that with.
I second his advice. Don't forget what you are and what you stand for. Allah has chosen you to see the truth and therefore you are blessed and very special. If your family start to see the light through you, then Allah is extending his mercy and love to them too.

Don't give up Anne Marie. This is your jihad and you are privileged to be fighting it. May Allah stay with you and keep you strong.

wasalaam
eleanor
Re: They won't talk to me
AMLHABIBI
10/26/01 at 21:39:42
Sisters I haven't yet committed myself to Islam for personal reasons but I am working on this Jihad.

Can I do that?  I am a believer but I haven't reconciled with all the laws yet and that may take time, I don't want to declare I am muslim and then proceed to break the laws.

I read my Jihad to Dr Jamal Badawi and he liked it and I read it to students at Dalhousie University Muslim Association and they liked it too they told me I am doing Dawah.

Re: They won't talk to me
Anik
10/27/01 at 06:16:27
asalaamu alaikum,

really, you go to Dalhousie!
I have a friend there who I want you to meet!

do me a favour, this person can learn a lot about Islam through you Insha'Allah!

msg me for more info please!. asalaamu alaikum. abdullah,.
Re: They won't talk to me
Barr
10/27/01 at 07:52:28
Assalamu'alaikum :)

Dear Anne Marie...

I think what you wrote is beautiful too, mashaAllah :)

You know... sometimes, silence is good... for, it is during silence that people think and ponder what they are beginning to see... and perhaps, try to grasp and reconcile things, inshaALlah.

Allahua'lam, but perhaps, you can take this silence period with patience, stride and constant du'a for your family.

[quote]Sisters I haven't yet committed myself to Islam for personal reasons but I am working on this Jihad.

Can I do that?  I am a believer but I haven't reconciled with all the laws yet and that may take time, I don't want to declare I am muslim and then proceed to break the laws. [/quote]

I'm sorry, Anne, but I'm trying to reconcile with what you said too :).

You are a believer... but you haven't committed yourself to Islam...
but isn't believing in something also indicates a commitment to the acknowledgement and recognition of it's truth?

Take care :)
wassalam


Re: They won't talk to me
AMLHABIBI
10/28/01 at 16:18:59
Hi Again

My family are talking to me again, I saw the newspaper and it edited my letter to say wars instead of W.A.R.S. so I wrote to the paper and asked for an apology.  We shall see if they do.

Thankyou for your encouragement and support I know where to come when I am ready to declare myself muslim, I am half way there now.


Dear Brothers and Sisters

I am a believer in Islam and as such I declare Holy W.A.R.S. on Poverty, Violence and Ignorance.  Peaceful W.A.R.S. of course.  W.A.R.S. stands for World Arising Responsibly and Spiritually.

The weapons of choice are Education, Forgiveness , Tolerance, Consultation and Prayer and the ammunition of choice is The Holy Quran, The Holy Books of Christianity and Judaism supported by science.   Some other weapons  of choice are Patience, Accountability, Compassion  and  Action with Consultation.

Our Allies in this are Christians, Jews and all non Muslims and Muslims alike.

The best plan of attack is  Leadership by  good example with good behaviors and kindly words and actions towards all beings Muslim and non Muslim, this will educate draw non Muslims to Islam.

You and All Brothers and Sisters are the Mujahadeen in these Holy Great W.A.R.S. Remembering that W.A.R.S. stands for World Arising Responsibly and Spiritually.

Jihads to end all Jihads.

Brothers and Sisters what are you willing to do for Islam and the World?

Sincerely

Anne Marie Habibi a believer in Islam

October 15th, 2001

Anne Marie Habibi
Halifax, Nova Scotia
Canada
Phone 1-902-443-4347
Email  amlhabibi@hotmail.com
New website
http://home.talkcity.com/InspirationAv/hhabibi/index.html
           


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