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boy meets girl?
Anonymous
10/31/01 at 10:18:54
U know wut Hang on ASSALAAM ALAYKUM :) Right this is probably
really
different to wut this group is about ye.. but like u know wut i was
wondering.. say ye U fall in love with the religious boy in your
college..
and U religious ur self or wuteva.. and u tried real hard not to like
him but
u cant help urself.. and u reckon he likes u too!! He mad stuck up and
stuff
but u see him lookign at u ( i know its gunnha but hey where theres
attraction theres attraction ye? ) Okay sO i wanna kNow.. What would
this
girl do.. IF this was like real?  
Re: boy meets girl?
M.F.
10/31/01 at 11:11:30
What LANGUAGE was that??? :)  :)
Re: boy meets girl?
eleanor
10/31/01 at 12:31:40
slm

If she's interested in him as a potential partner for life, then she should get her Wali on the case (if she knows he's a Muslim).

If he's not Muslim and if she's only flirting for the fun of it, well then she should really stop looking at him and try to stop thinking about him. If they carry on flirting, it may lead to other things and that's when it gets really serious. Hearts are so fragile. They can be broken so easily. She should really take care of her heart until she knows that the man for life has come along. And when she trusts him and knows he will take care of her and love her, then she can let him into her life. Not beforehand. All Muslim sisters should have enough self-respect that they don't get led on a Merry Dance.

emm..I hope this made sense, if not ask again and I'll try to explain it better! :)

take care
wasalaam
eleanor
Re: boy meets girl?
se7en
11/02/01 at 09:20:28
as salaamu alaykum,

good post eleanor :)

Here are some older threads sorta on this same topic:

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[*] [url=http://www.jannah.org/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.pl/YaBB.pl?board=madrasa&action=display&num=3823]advice sought[/url]
[*] [url=http://www.jannah.org/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.pl/YaBB.pl?board=madrasa&action=display&num=4996]Advice[/url]
[*] [url=http://www.jannah.org/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.pl/YaBB.pl?board=madrasa&action=display&num=3070]I feel terrible..[/url]



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