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| Can't get him out of my head |
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| Anonymous |
| 11/24/01 at 03:51:32 |
| I used to like someone alot. As soon as I saw him I fell in love and he is not particularly handsome so there was no real reason why it should have been love at first sight for me but it was. I just felt that Allah subanallah was guiding me to him. I think he knew I liked him but I always distanced myself from him because of fear of doing wrong. He was kind hearted a really nice person. But he left a year ago and I still really miss him and can't stop thinking about him. I then saw some pictures of him drinking and was so shocked. But I can't stop thinking about him and I don't know what to do. I prayed that Allah would guide him on the right path and that I would see him again oneday, but am I doing the wrong thing? |
| Re: Can't get him out of my head |
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| Anonymous |
| 11/24/01 at 04:40:32 |
| Assalamu Alaikum, I went through a similar experience. I fell in love with this guy not based on looks but his character. He seemed to be a very religious person and that's what attracted me to him. Anyway I could not get him off my mind and I prayed to Allah that if he is the right person for me and if he is truly sincere in his faith as he seemed to be then grant him to me as a husband. A few months later I found out that he had a girlfriend (or used to have a girlfriend). I was shocked and heart broken for a while. But I eventually got over it. |
| Re: Can't get him out of my head |
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| Kathy |
| 11/25/01 at 01:34:40 |
| slm Try this- it sounds wacky- infact I was going to post it anon... Wear a rubber band around your wrist- every time you think of him- snap yourself! And don't even bother to ask how I know this works... |
| Re: Can't get him out of my head |
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| Caraj |
| 11/25/01 at 02:38:56 |
| Not making fun of this, honest I'm not. But wanted to thank you for the idea Kathy cause I'm going to try this with eatting :) |
| Re: Can't get him out of my head |
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| Saleema |
| 11/25/01 at 02:42:22 |
| [slm] I pinched my self for cursing and it worked. [wlm] |
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| Mystic |
| 11/25/01 at 05:10:32 |
| [slm] these are cute.... jus' relax and enjoy the ride.... it will be smooooth sailing Inshaallah. (Amin). Maliha [wlm] |
| Re: Can't get him out of my head |
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| mujaahid |
| 11/25/01 at 08:13:41 |
| Anonymous he left a year ago, he obviously moved on in life, why dont you do the same? Is thinking about him 24/7 gona make your life any happier? Wouldnt it be better if you just started doing something to take your mind of him, a hobby, join some class or something? If you ready for marriage then find another bro, a good bro. Remeber after hardship comes ease, and allah will replace that other guy with someone better. After all, he used to drink. Yet you still find his character attractive. What does that tell you about your priorities? I know tis may sound cold hearted, but pull yourself together, and get over him, because dreaming about him and drowning in your own sorrow is gona get you knowhere and is just gona leave you unhappy and depressed. Is that what you really want? So pull youself together, get up, get him out your head, and get on with your life. And just stop thinking about him. The more you stop, the sooner you'll forget. Lifes to short and precious to waste sulking over another person. |
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