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im not feeling well now!!! - no bros here plz!!!!
nehar
12/06/01 at 07:16:51
[slm] man, i got a feelin im gonna start, its terrible!! make dua i dont start wat do u do wen u cant pray on the last 10 days of ramadhan?? [wlm] Nehar with a killin back!!!

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Rehana
12/06/01 at 08:01:21
wat do u do wen u cant pray on the last 10 days of ramadhan?? This may be a "small" consolation compared to how you feel right now, but although you canot fast and perform Salaah, you can still make Zikr and Duah.

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M.F.
12/06/01 at 08:59:55
And you can listen to Qur'an and pray it's over real quick

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nehar
12/06/01 at 11:40:27
[quote] wat do u do wen u cant pray on the last 10 days of ramadhan?? [/quote] [slm] i was talkin about periods, anyways i got thrpugh ma fast, jazak [wlm]

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Hania
12/06/01 at 12:35:39
Salam, When you start you 'temps de la mois' do any of you suffer from mood swings, i.e. one minute teary eyed, the next minute really moody and agressive? After reading posts of sisters who are normally so sweet natured and jolly, I usally assume a sister is enduring her monthly period, when her posts are agressive and out of character. Hania

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nehar
12/06/01 at 12:43:27
[quote] When you start you 'temps de la mois' do any of you suffer from mood swings, i.e. one minute teary eyed, the next minute really moody and agressive? After reading posts of sisters who are normally so sweet natured and jolly, I usally assume a sister is enduring her monthly period, when her posts are agressive and out of character. [/quote] [slm] im like british weather, i change with the minute.  Depenmds where i am and who im with [wlm]

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Hania
12/06/01 at 13:28:02
[quote] im like british weather, i change with the minute.  Depenmds where i am and who im with [/quote] Me too :) But last time I had mine I woke up in the middle of the night and just started crying and crying. I had no idea why, but I just felt so sad, I cried myself to sleep. Then the next day I woke up and was singing and smiling..........strange. :) I get backace at that time too, and just before I start I feel sick and vomit. I always keep a packet of paracetamol handy.

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amatullah
12/06/01 at 18:29:38
Bismillah and salam, Why not cook for people. Insha'Allah you get the reward of their fast without making it any less for them.

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Marcie
12/06/01 at 18:52:18
As salamu alaykum Al hamdu lillah I'm happy to know that other sisters have these problems too.  I'm usually very emotional and will cry over anything. As salamu alaykum Marcie

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Lisha
12/07/01 at 01:54:36
[quote]Al hamdu lillah I'm happy to know that other sisters have these problems too.  I'm usually very emotional and will cry over anything. [/quote]as-salaam alaikum, lol, i'm emotional all the time! but i wont go into that;) Sr.amatullah thats a really good idea to cook 4 ppl! mash'allah:) take care

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Anonymous
12/07/01 at 03:29:48
The Prophet(SAW) advised Aysha (R.A) to say this dua when not praying in the last ten days: Allahumu inaka 3'afuwan Tu Hib al 3'afwa Fa'3afu 3'ana

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gift
12/07/01 at 04:21:43
[slm] will u miss the eid salah? man, last eid my mum, sister and me all missed our eid salah :( [wlm]

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Barr
12/07/01 at 05:03:43
Assalamu'alaikum :-) [quote]I'm usually very emotional and will cry over anything. [/quote] Yeah, I remembered I cried over the Olympic trailers, the donate 2 pounds for cancer research and this ad on some beef stock. Bistro? OXO? Ok, that aside... I think, eventhough we are not able to pray, I think inshaALlah, we can still enliven the nights. As mentioned before, we can listen to the Qur'an, read the translation, and read the Qur'an still (for those who hold onto the opinion that it's alright to). In addition, it's a nice time, in the quiet of the night to do some reflection... a self evaluation (muhasabah) on what we have spent on our lives, and what we haven't, the ni'mah that ALlah has given us, and perhaps, where we wanna go from here, what do we want to achieve, where are we with the ummah and so many things inshaAllah.... Forgive those that have mistreated us, and purify our hearts from rancour and hate. Make lots of du'a, facing the ka'abah in sajdah, or in anyway that we feel closer to Him.. and just talk and talk and talk to Allah, and spend time and find comfort with Him. Let us strengthen our hearts, no matter what state that we're in... and may ALlah bless us during these last 10 nights, and bestow on us, a night that is better than a thousand months.. Laylatul Qadr. Ameen.... Take care, dear sisters :-) "Verily in the rememberance of ALlah, do hearts find rest" Surah Ar-Ra'd:28

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M.F.
12/07/01 at 06:19:19
I get aggressive mostly.  I hate myself!! I always find a reason to pick a fight with my hubby (mostly in my head cause I do retain some self control).  It's also prime depression and feeling-sorry-for-myself time. Did you know that around their period time women dream that men are just horrible?  Even though they have a completely normal and loving relationship with them.  A psych professor told us once, and I've found it to be true.  I know it's from the shaytan but around that time I've had some very upsetting dreams about my husband, whom I love very much and who would never do anything to hurt my feelings.  Has it happened to anyone else?

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nehar
12/07/01 at 06:26:59
[slm] [quote]I get aggressive mostly.  I hate myself!! [/quote] so do i!!! i used 2 keep a diary wen i was younger and wen i look back now, i dont understand y i cried on certain days and y i was emotional 4 nothing, i always thought the world was against me!!! sumtimes i used 2 cry all night 4 no reason, write a poem and in the morning think  'huh, wat was wrong wid me last nite!!' i've stopped writing a diary now, cuz it depresses me!!!! [wlm]

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Jenna
12/07/01 at 18:12:41
[wlm]  Sadly I am  expecting my period either 13th,14th or 15th! *sigh* :( :( :( once again the inevitable happens. I believe I have set out more E'id prayers (since I have reached puberty lol)then I have prayed LOL ;)    I understand your feelings Sisters!! I would get VERY VERY emotional during my period! arghhhh!!! What helps is drinking Chamomile Tea a warm bath and some Pamprin (it helps with irritatuion, pain bloating etc..). If you dont wanna take any pills like that; then try relaxing herbs, like Valarien Root, and Damiana. But make sure you talk to your doctor or an herbologist before trying something you dont know. What you can do is get some relaxing teas. Look for them in your health food store. And like I said before a warm bath or a long warm shower does wonders!! InshaAllah I hope this helps. Your Sis in Islaam Jenna :-)

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Kathy
12/08/01 at 17:31:27
slm Here is a little known fact of my life: For too many Eids- I always ended up in the "menses pen" every year for prayers. One year I actually made dua to be able to go to pray and have never missed an Eid Prayer since.

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Jenna
12/10/01 at 17:49:20
[wlm]  I started my period yesterday :( I am now on the sidelines.....Anyone else??? I hope not........  Everything happens for a reason..Allahu'Alim! Your Sis on the Sidelines Jenna :(

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gift
12/11/01 at 04:46:07
[slm] [quote]One year I actually made dua to be able to go to pray and have never missed an Eid Prayer since.[/quote] wow kathy :o :o that's really cool 8-) [wlm]

Re: im not feeling well now!!! - no bros here plz!!!!
nehar
12/11/01 at 09:19:26
[slm] i hope the brothers rn't here, cuz their gonna think were hayaaless [wlm]

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Kathy
12/11/01 at 10:06:13
[quote] i hope the brothers rn't here, cuz their gonna think were hayaaless [/quote] slm I think it is good for these future husbands to realize that missing prayers and Eid are a burden of sorrow to us. I have actually seen some of them post that we are lucky to have the breaks...:( Perhaps tho, posting these kind of things- annon. might be better!

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savannah
12/11/01 at 21:43:37
Asalaamu aleykum, If i had taken the time to read the posts properly i would have noticed my question was addressed here, lol. Sadly, i am on the sidelines too :(

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Lisha
12/12/01 at 01:44:11
as-salaam alaikum, cheer up sisters!!! What ever happens, happens for the best! You can always make duas:):):) But Dont 4get to put me in them;) take care

Re: im not feeling well now!!! - no bros here plz!!!!
nehar
12/12/01 at 06:54:52
[quote] I think it is good for these future husbands to realize that missing prayers and Eid are a burden of sorrow to us. I have actually seen some of them post that we are lucky to have the breaks...:( Perhaps tho, posting these kind of things- annon. might be better![/quote] [slm] i will next time, cudnt b bothered cuz i was depressed!!! [wlm]
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