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Supa_Star_Sista
03/05/02 at 23:24:50
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few weeks ago my hijab was pulled of in my classroom well i told my mom and she went to school and complained but glad thats over.... but there were 22 kids in that class room ....

 2 were LESBO and BISEXUAL

ok and now they like me don't mind me yell but  YUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.

wut am i supose do to???
help me out quick !!!! cuz i found that out 2DAY .

jazakallah khair  [wlm]

ME
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
M.F.
03/06/02 at 04:37:39
What're you supposed to do???  What could you possibly do? Nothing!  Just try to avoid them and don't talk to them and don't think about how yucky they are.  Just don't think about them is my suggestion.
And if you live in America.... get used to it.  We used to have a gay and lesb. office right down the hall from our MSA office at university.  We just dealt with it...   :P sickening but there's nothing you can really do about it.
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
Kathy
03/06/02 at 09:02:40
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So what is really bothering you about it?

There are a couple of girls that are really mixed up.

Please remember to be careful of slandering anyone. Rumors can be very addicting and take on a life of it's own. I would not want to be held accountable for saying something like this- especially if it were not true.

I remember in highschool there were two girls who everyone said they were this way- and they weren't.In fact both have been happily married to men -20 plus years later with kids!

So now they like you?- just because they saw your hair? How do you know this? Perhaps they felt bad that you went through this ordeal and are trying to offer you some compassion.

I do not want the Akwat Cafe to turn into a gutter mouth- slang spot. So please dear Sisters and Brothers lets not go there.
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
mujaahid
03/06/02 at 14:37:17
:-/

This is rather funny!!!

Sis, understand this, these people are mentally ill, their is something in thier heads which isnt quite right, i mean how can any sane person be attracted to someone of the same sex? Their has to be something not right in thier head.

Dont worry about them, just ignore them. DO NOT be friendly towards them. I have to work with loads of homo's at work! It was aweful at first, but i learnt to just blank them and ignore their discussions about gay puds etc.

DONT talk to them if you can help it. Pretend your deaf or something, and blind! Or maybe pretend THEY are invisible to you!!

But relax, they are simply lost souls, confused, unhappy, insecure, and putting that all down to being gay propabably gives these people some kind of explanation as to why they are the way they are.  
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
AyeshaZ
03/06/02 at 15:28:16
[quote author=M.F. link=board=sis;num=1015388690;start=0#1 date=03/06/02 at 04:37:39]
 We used to have a gay and lesb. office right down the hall from our MSA office at university.  We just dealt with it...   :P sickening but there's nothing you can really do about it.[/quote]

No way U tooo  :'(
Its weird how they flyers for their events in my Uni are the brightest and so hard to miss...
Sister just ignore and make Du'a for them and youself.
JazakumAllahu Khair
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
Supa_Star_Sista
03/06/02 at 20:15:07
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its not funny at all  :'(

[wlm]
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
Seeker
03/06/02 at 21:55:17
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hey you have to be strong in school! believe me I know what dealing with gay people is like (went to an all girls school, for only two years). Ok, question, do these girls know that islam prohibits homosexuality? because if they do? I would say that they're doing it inspite of you. Two years ago I was having problems like this, but I realized that they do things likethis just to get under your skin. How can these two girls just start to like you just by seeing your hair? it doesn't happen magically. It doesn't take one look from a gay person to ingnite some passionate feelings from them. In some cases it might, BUT in high school? not likely. The majority of the students don't even know what love is. If anything, they might think you're pretty(but they won't knock you over becasue of this.),  but then again, some of your friends might think your pretty. I know it's not the same but just don't let it get under your skin, maybe that's what their goal is. Or maybe, it could be a bunch of rumurs.

A few things that you may want to keep in mind if you do come in contact with one of them- treat them as human beings with respect, after all they are people, try to have a whole lot of haya around them, but you're supposed to have that everywhere. When you know you're in a situation though, be on your guard. You can still not like and disagree with people, but make sure it doesn't become ghiba with other people. This is a big way you let them bring you down.

I, personally, know this can be unnerving, but rise above it, be stronger. Tolerance and respect of others is a key in Islam. alright, that's all from me, I hope this helped. :)

~Tauhirah
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
BroHanif
03/07/02 at 02:56:45
Wise words Caraj,

The enemy is shaytan or satan and not the person. At the least we hate the sin that this person does but at the most we must raise our hand and make dua for them that Allah change us and them for the good.

Insha-allah if I have time I'll post a few references up on angels.

[quote]Is there anything in the Quran simular to love one another, weep with one another, be there to strengthen, encourage and help one another[/quote]

003.103
YUSUFALI:
And hold fast, all together, by the rope which Allah (stretches out for you), and be not divided among yourselves; and remember with gratitude Allah's favour on you; for ye were enemies and He joined your hearts in love, so that by His Grace, ye became brethren; and ye were on the brink of the pit of Fire, and He saved you from it. Thus doth Allah make His Signs clear to you: That ye may be guided.

004.036
YUSUFALI: Serve Allah, and join not any partners with Him; and do good- to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbours who are near, neighbours who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (ye meet), and what your right hands possess: For Allah loveth not the arrogant, the vainglorious;-

Off to work, more later insha-allah.

Hanif
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
Dawn
03/07/02 at 05:27:43
[quote author=Caraj link=board=sis;num=1015388690;start=0#5 date=03/06/02 at 15:30:26]I asked a Mosque locally for one but they said they were limited and I should oder one but I am not sure where to order one.
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I ordered mine from amazon.com.  There are also a couple of different versions online or downloadable.  I downloaded a different version (Pikthall) onto my PC so that I could have a couple of different translations when I am reading.  Go to [url]http://www.islamasoft.com/[/url] for a free download.

Dawn
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
mujaahid
03/07/02 at 09:54:48
Sisters stop crying, be strong, face these people, dont start crying when they pop up!! Deal with them!!!
Re: la howla wala quwata YUCK TOO NASTY HELP ME
explorer
03/07/02 at 14:41:37
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Super Star,

Why do you find it upsetting and deplorable that they like you? Were they the ones that pulled off your hijab?

So they like you. Its their feelings and they have to deal with it. They can't do anything to you.

I take it you're a teen? At that age feelings come and go all the time and next week or month they'll move on, forget about you and like someone else. Just keep your distance from them and chill out with your main crew 8) Maintain contact with them to an absolute minimum and only when necessary. In that way the less they liase with you the less they will talk and think about you.


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