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| Fatimah |
| 06/14/02 at 14:53:59 |
| Salam alaikum wrwb, Im really going through a lot right now. Im in constant tears. I need to talk about my problems to someone..but I dont have anyone to talk to. I feel im all alone. La howla wa la quwalta ila bilah. I think im going through a divorce right now. I say I think, because this happens often, but this time I feel its real. Im so hurt, because I love my husband so much. I didnt do anything, and he constantly says this..but he says this is what he needs. He's not ready for a commitment and wants to be free. Im so so so hurt. Tomorrow im travelling to Cairo to try to get a visa for him, he wants to take me back to the US towards the end of this week. I just cant imagine my life without him. I feel like im losing my life. My whole new life of being a muslim was with him..I learned and experienced everything with him..now im losing that. I dont know what to expect. Please make dua for me. I need some company right now to keep my mind busy. I havent left this site for days now. I know after every hardship there is ease..thats the only thing that is keeping me hopeful. I hope he changes his mind. La ilah ila Allah...ina ila wa ina ilaihi ragroon. |
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| Kathy |
| 06/14/02 at 16:02:14 |
| [slm] I have been in the same situation you are in now. Instant message me and I will send you my e-mail if you want to. May Allah swt cool your eyes. |
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| Fatimah |
| 06/16/02 at 21:36:27 |
| salam alaikum, GREAT NEWS!!! Thank you all for your duas. We travelled to Cairo, but my embassy wasnt open that day..anyways, on the way back to his sisters house..he changed his mind about the divorce and he said he was so sorry to put me through this again. Im soooooo happy he changed his mind. And now we are getting along great. Alhamdulilah! On the trip there in the train, I read a really good book. I really advise anyone going through a hard time to read it. It took away all my tears and really made me trust in Allah to handle my affair. The book is called Useful Ways of Leading a Happy Life. It is by a Saudi sheikh named Sheikh AbdurRahman bin Nasir Al-Si'idy. It was really good! Alhamdulilah, Alhamdulilah! Again, thanks for the dua. |
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| Kashif |
| 06/17/02 at 12:40:49 |
| Alhumdulillah.* thats great news! |
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| sam |
| 06/25/02 at 18:22:27 |
| alh i hope evrything stays well for you...me i think our marraige is definatley on the rocks...my husband does not love me any more..oh it's such a long story that i will be here forever writng it all out..the problem is i try to keep him happy but evrything i do is never good enough for him..i constantly make mistakes....always cry and amd appently una ppreciaitve. doesn't he think that i fear allah and that it is not intentional? is there hope after divorce? |
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| Kathy |
| 06/26/02 at 07:59:55 |
| [slm] Yep... and before divorce too! |
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