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| mujaahid |
| 02/03/02 at 11:25:02 |
| Assalaamu-alaikum A question for the sisters. What would you think of a bro if he was bald or balding? Would you consider him for marriage? Would it put you off? How much of an influence is a full head of hair when women are looking for a husband? Wasalaam. |
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| Marcie |
| 02/03/02 at 11:37:37 |
| As salamu alaykum [quote]How much of an influence is a full head of hair when women are looking for a husband? [/quote] Every sister is different. I think that it depends on what comes first the deen or the head! ;););) |
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| kiwi25 |
| 02/03/02 at 21:42:56 |
| salam, i agree with marcie but.... i might be put off a little if he was young, but after we get married, i would expect it to fall off.... wasalam nouha:) |
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| kareema |
| 02/04/02 at 01:33:00 |
| Well, if balding was due to age, that would be a whole nother question, but if its balding while young, I could overlook that, provided he could overlook my acne ridden face:)(: |
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| mujaahid |
| 02/04/02 at 05:09:05 |
| OK, what about if he was starting to loose a bit of hair, not bald, just you can see it coming? |
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| Marcie |
| 02/04/02 at 05:59:19 |
| As salamu alaykum It really does not matter what we think. The sister that is destined to marry you will marry you and who cares about the rest. ;) As salamu alaykum |
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| mujaahid |
| 02/04/02 at 07:18:57 |
| lol! Listen i ain going bold, but its gona happen! I have a LONG way to go!!! |
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| Kathy |
| 02/04/02 at 09:34:32 |
| slm Trust me- it is not as important to the women as men seem to think it is. Many of us grew up around balding brothers, fathers, uncles, grandparents- and we love them. After short while- you just don't seem to notice it as much as you do notice their smiling and caring faces. The time I remember noticing it was when my first hubby started to obsess about it. I could never understand it because he was good looking and his lack of hair did not take away from his appearance. Genetically- if i recall right- the men should look at their mother's father- I think that is where the gene comes from. |
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| AyeshaZ |
| 02/06/02 at 13:10:03 |
Asalamu alikum, he he yeah its Deen that matters. You marry the brother cause of his deen not his looks. so i guess it depends on the sister who you are marrying.. he he nouha right on... I never knew that brothers were so touchy about the whole baldness issue, things that one learns after coming to this board:) jazakumAllahu khair |
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| Barr |
| 02/07/02 at 00:29:00 |
| Assalamu'alaikum [quote]What would you think of a bro if he was bald or balding? [/quote] His hair follicles have a shorter lifespan. Isn't it such a big relief to know that maturity, faith, kindness, tact, sincerity, honesty, piety, humility, courage and all the good things, are not measured by the amount of hair a man has? On top of his head, or under his chin. Allahua'lam :-) |
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