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What Women Want
Kathy
12/23/02 at 23:36:10
[code](edited) Appreciation "Women want to be complimented on their intelligence, creativity and sense of humor." "Give me a back massage that lasts longer than two seconds and isn't followed by "Okay, my turn." "Women want to feel special to their partners." "Call me just to see that I'm okay after driving through the snow." "You're with me for a reason. Remind me once in awhile what that is." Loyalty "Women want a man who does not always have one foot out the door." "We want men to say 'I love you' and mean it. Understanding "Listen to my problems, don't try to fix them. Then give me a hug." "Don't comment on how attractive some other woman is directly before or after making fun of the large pimple on my cheek, and then tell me how insecure I am when I get mad." A Little Romance "Give me a kiss goodbye when you leave the room, even if you're coming right back." "Ask me out on a date that you planned from start to finish without my input." "Draw me a warm bubble bath after a long day of work. [/code]
12/23/02 at 23:36:43
Kathy

Re: What Women Want
Moe_D
12/24/02 at 10:45:01
[slm] Awwwwww dosent sound hard at all to do!

Re: What Women Want
ltcorpest2
12/24/02 at 15:42:33
Call me just to see that I'm okay after driving through the snow." Why do people live in the snow? "Women want a man who does not always have one foot out the door." of course if you stay in they will tell you to get your rear off the sofa and do something. Ask me out on a date that you planned from start to finish without my input." does that mean ting her to a hockey, football or basketball game?  Of ourse without her imput she will say,  why can't we do anything i like to do? Draw me a warm bubble bath after a long day of work. after I have  long day at work?

Re: What Women Want
BroHanif
12/25/02 at 10:00:21
I didn't know whether the above post by Kathy meant in Jannah or in this life, surely she meant it for the hearafter ?
NS

Re: What Women Want
Kathy
12/25/02 at 11:54:30
[slm] Bro Hanif, I read and reread your post above and kept looking for the "wink" smiley. Is this old lady's eyes getting weaker? or did you just "forget" to add the wink?

Re: What Women Want
Fatimah
12/25/02 at 17:24:57
[quote]"Listen to my problems, don't try to fix them. Then give me a hug."[/quote] oh.. *sigh*  this would be a dream come true.. I wouldn't even need the hug.  ::)

Re: What Women Want
abubakr
12/25/02 at 22:48:46
salam i liked the goodbye kiss thing  ;D i'll do it inshallah (with my fufture wife i mean)

Re: What Women Want
Ameeraana
12/28/02 at 17:22:02
Driving through the snow is the scariest!!!!  I live in Colorado and have to do it every winter!!  My car was totalled almost two years ago in a last snow storm when 5 cars hit me after driving home from work at the airport--and then the road I was on and the airport closed 1 hour after my accident.... ahhh, it was terrible-couldn't see 2 inches ahead of me!!    In bad snow conditions I just feel fear the whole time I'm driving---I sure like the idea of a man calling a woman after that kind of drive!! :) Ameera

Re: What Women Want
Maliha
12/28/02 at 22:13:53
[slm] My hubby called me on me cell while driving back home while it was snowing..i told him how i almost skidded twice...he made me park the car, and came to get me from where i was. Then went back the next day to pick up the car with my bro. I thought it was the sweetest thing :-* Best of all I didn't have to wait for Jannah for that  :P [wlm]

Re: What Women Want
Muhammed
12/29/02 at 04:15:26
[slm] I think its funny of what women want  :P They need to chill and have a  [] once in their life... or everday  ::) Nah, just kidding....... I thought it was kinda sweet.... although I already knew what women want.  8)  ;) [wlm]

Re: What Women Want
abubakr
12/29/02 at 09:37:23
[quote author=Maliha link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=0#8 date=12/28/02 at 22:13:53] [slm] My hubby called me on me cell while driving back home while it was snowing..i told him how i almost skidded twice...he made me park the car, and came to get me from where i was. Then went back the next day to pick up the car with my bro. I thought it was the sweetest thing :-* Best of all I didn't have to wait for Jannah for that  :P [wlm][/quote] mashAllah sis Maliha that's so romantic.......... may Allah swt bless you and your hubby and reward you by pious children amen

Re: What Women Want
Maliha
12/29/02 at 12:30:45
[quote author=Abu Bakr link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=0#10 date=12/29/02 at 09:37:23] mashAllah sis Maliha that's so romantic.......... may Allah swt bless you and your hubby and reward you by pious children amen [/quote] Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen ;D ;D ;D

Re: What Women Want
Emerald
12/29/02 at 12:44:59
Kathy-- This may seem odd (and it may spark a little debate among the brothers ;) ) but I would like to add that sometimes a gal just wants the guy to leave her the heck alone! I mean they just love to nag and whine, nag and whine. ::) Sheesh, kids are easier to deal with! :-/ Emerald

Re: What Women Want
BroHanif
12/30/02 at 12:31:25
Salaams [quote]My hubby called me on me cell while driving back home while it was snowing..i told him how i almost skidded twice...he made me park the car, and came to get me from where i was. Then went back the next day to pick up the car with my bro. I thought it was the sweetest thing [/quote] Just make sure he dosen't present you with an I've got a gift for you honey and its and Ipaq or a man gadget. Sometimes some bros need to do a few favours just so wifey dosen't get upset when we blow some money on some new boys toys. Salaams Hanif p.s. its good to hear you guys are getting along!.
NS

Re: What Women Want
Barr
01/03/03 at 23:41:40
Assalamu'alaikum! [move][size=5][color=red]New Flash [/color][/size][/move] OK, guys.. beat this! My friend's husband sew her a princess cut jilbab-dress, with little sequins near the hemmings for Eid! I just found out yesterday.... All of us were like *W O W*!Subhanallah! We want one too! :-* And no... he's not a tailor. :P

Re: What Women Want
jaihoon
01/07/03 at 23:31:34
[quote author=Barr link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=0#14 date=01/03/03 at 23:41:40]Assalamu'alaikum! [move][size=5][color=red]New Flash [/color][/size][/move] OK, guys.. beat this! My friend's husband sew her a princess cut jilbab-dress, with little sequins near the hemmings for Eid! I just found out yesterday.... All of us were like *W O W*!Subhanallah! We want one too! :-* And no... he's not a tailor. :P[/quote] Necessity is the mother of invention  ;)

Re: What Women Want
AyeshaZ
01/09/03 at 07:42:34
[quote author=Barr link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=0#14 date=01/03/03 at 23:41:40]Assalamu'alaikum! [move][size=5][color=red]New Flash [/color][/size][/move] OK, guys.. beat this! My friend's husband sew her a princess cut jilbab-dress, with little sequins near the hemmings for Eid! I just found out yesterday.... All of us were like *W O W*!Subhanallah! We want one too! :-* And no... he's not a tailor. :P[/quote] LOL thats sooooo funny n cute :) [] btw what is a princess cut jilbab-dress??

Re: What Women Want
Cyma
01/11/03 at 00:35:06
[slm]  :-* Hmm....what women basically want is to be cared for and being shown just that, however small the act may be ("act" as in "action," not "pretence"  ;)

Re: What Women Want
Ghetto_Hijabi
01/17/03 at 14:27:04
Nice post Kathy..I think you got it right down to the T :D

Re: What Women Want
dirt
01/19/03 at 04:53:02
[slm] These replies are great but it has been my experience that women say they want a nice guy but what they really mean is, they want a bad boy. I don't know why this is.  Just an observation. [wlm]

Re: What Women Want
WhatDFish
01/19/03 at 11:18:19
[quote]women say they want a nice guy but what they really mean is, they want a bad boy[/quote] really?? geez . . . u shudve said earlier! lol  :D

Re: What Women Want
Kathy
01/19/03 at 12:20:08
[slm] Ya right.... :P no woman wants a bad boy....  :-[at least no good woman!

Re: What Women Want
jannah
01/19/03 at 16:24:08
See it's like this for some of 'em... nice guy = boring bad boy = interesting what we'd really like is a nice guy who's interesting which is hard to come by ;)

Re: What Women Want
jaihoon
01/20/03 at 13:20:55
[quote author=jannah link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=15#22 date=01/19/03 at 16:24:08]See it's like this for some of 'em... nice guy = boring bad boy = interesting what we'd really like is a nice guy who's interesting which is hard to come by ;) [/quote] Wow! What a proposition! Even Einstein would get confused at that  ;)

Re: What Women Want
Barr
01/24/03 at 09:52:38
Assalamu'alaikum :) Hmmm, I shan't get started on the nice guys vs bad boys debate  8) [quote]btw what is a princess cut jilbab-dress??[/quote] Basically, it is a cut at the shoulder, and runs down through the bust, waist to the hem. It's cool, coz its kinda slimming too. :) Since men are more visual... well... there's so many pictrues of princess cut dresses.. but not suitable for this Healthclub I'm afraid :) ... so...  hmm, this is the most decent picture I can get in the net. Plus, it gives you the clearest idea on wot a pricess cut would look like, inshaALlah. [img]http://www.costumes-4-halloween.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/ladykatherinepluslarge.jpg[/img] So, a princess cut jilbab dress, is like an ordinary princess cut dress. But because its long and very loose fitting and functions as a jilbab, I call it a jilbab dress, eventhough it has no buttons running down the dress, like most jilbabs. Hope this helps, inshaAllah :) Or have I succeeded to confuse those male species further? ;) Wassalam  :-) P.S. Ok, the pic is not working.. sorry.
01/24/03 at 09:57:15
Barr

Re: What Women Want
dirt
01/26/03 at 03:47:23
[slm] :( It's a sad day in the Health Club when we have females trying to post pictures of dresses. :'( Here, just to counterbalance your dress posting efforts... [img]http://www.people.virginia.edu/~rfk2u/images/harley.gif[/img] Oh yeahhhhh. [wlm]

Re: What Women Want
sister2sister
01/26/03 at 07:16:57
Salaam to all :D :D :D   Your sister in Islam

Re: What Women Want
Dawn
01/26/03 at 07:55:46
Nahhh, this one is much cooler!   ;D  (I miss ours!  :'(  We had to sell it before we moved overseas.) [img]http://sainte-gamelle.com/catalogue_officieux/catalopics/xlR1100RT.gif[/img]

Re: What Women Want
Barr
01/26/03 at 09:29:27
Wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullah :) Especially for our Br Dirt  :-* Take this!!! :P [img]http://www.rowdyruff.net/images/index_body/boomer_rrb_x.gif[/img] and this!! and this!! [img]http://www.rowdyruff.net/images/index_body/brick_rrb_x.gif[/img] and this!! [img]http://www.rowdyruff.net/images/index_body/butch_rrb_x.gif[/img] Beat that  ;D Ahhhh... how sweet  []
01/26/03 at 09:31:15
Barr

Re: What Women Want
medina
01/30/03 at 06:48:04
What do women really want? ??? :o People's wants sometimes contradicts there needs :'( In this case if all women really want is what's in the post then what they NEED is a GOOD Muslim man Becoz a Good Muslim man will take care of all those NEEDS What do say all my Muslim bros out there? [center][/center] :-)

Re: What Women Want
BrKhalid
01/30/03 at 07:16:42
Asalaamu Alaikum ;-) [quote]In this case if all women really want is what's in the post then what they NEED is a GOOD Muslim man Becoz a Good Muslim man will take care of all those NEEDS [/quote] Indeed the rights of a wife should be the duties of a husband and vice versa. I still reckon a Brother's EQ [Emotional Quotient] is higher if he has grown up with female siblings, all other things being equal of course. As for the bikes what happened to the good old fashioned scooter! ;-)
01/30/03 at 07:17:22
BrKhalid

Re: What Women Want
Dawn
01/31/03 at 15:03:45
[slm] [quote author=BrKhalid link=board=bro;num=1040704571;start=30#30 date=01/30/03 at 07:16:42]As for the bikes what happened to the good old fashioned scooter! ;-) [/quote] Here, just for you Br. Khalid, is the most popular scooter in Zurich.:-*You see these cuties all over the place here!   [img]www.ok-motorraeder.de/bilder/ piaggio_vespa_et4.jpg[/img]
01/31/03 at 15:06:58
Dawn

Re: What Women Want
BrKhalid
02/01/03 at 06:54:02
Asalaamu Alaikum ;-) Thanks Dawn....much better now. ;-) And there you go dirt, the manly balance has now been restored to the Ikhwan ;-)

Re: What Women Want
dirt
02/02/03 at 04:06:48
[slm] A scooter?!  And she even used the "C" word!  Oh man, this is a dark day indeed. [wlm]

Re: What Women Want
Dawn
02/02/03 at 05:10:12
[slm] Don't worry, Br. Dirt, cute as they may be, they still can't hold a candle to our old R1100RT (see picture a couple of posts back -- ours wasn't blue, though).  Now THAT was/is a bike!  Ah, the days before kids ...
02/02/03 at 05:10:58
Dawn

Re: What Women Want
se7en
03/03/03 at 13:27:53
as salaamu alaykum, some good advice for the bros here is beautifully expressed by the donkey in the cartoon movie Shrek, to his friend the ogre. Donkey: You LOVE this woman don't ya? Shrek: Yes. Donkey: Do you wanna HOLD her? Shrek: Yes. Donkey: PLEASE her? Shrek: Yes! Donkey: Then ya gotta gotta try a little *TENDERNESS*!!!!!!!  <breaks into song> hehe wasalaamu alaykum :-)

Re: What Women Want
dirt
03/06/03 at 06:25:09
[slm] Sorry, I try not to take advice from....hehe....it got deleted. [wlm]
03/06/03 at 06:25:46
dirt
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