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faith812
01/14/03 at 11:14:08
salam,
 I am getting sick of people taking advantage of me, i don't really have a lot of friends, and the once i got i like to make them special in everyway i can, but it seems, no one cares about me. I guest it has a lot to do with my lack of self-esteem, and the fact that i worry so much about what others think about me, that i usually end up becoming how everyone else wants me to be. And i am getting sick of it.

      if anyone over come this , please provide ways i can over come.
jazakalla
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Chris
01/14/03 at 15:26:38
I know this problem, but sadly friendship is give and take and some people try to take too much.  My main recomendations would be to develop any hobbies you have and meet people who share those hobbbies.  I myself am into alternate histiry and I seem to be regarded as an equal by people who know much more than I.  

The only person you really need to worry about is God, everyone else is secondary.  You can't please everyone, therefore you may as well me yourself.  Develop more confidence in yourself

Chris
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deenb4dunya
01/14/03 at 18:09:24
Keep in mind that only the relationships of two individual for the sake of Allah will last in Aakhirah, and will be of benefit in dunya.

Wassalamu Alaikum,
Deen :-)


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