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| Anonymous |
| 01/28/03 at 17:48:52 |
| Assalamualaikum, i have been having this problem for quite sometimes now. Something just happened a few hours ago and now i am feeling very :( and fee like :'( the thing is i have this someone (A) who is very dear to me; and just a couple of months back, i found out that she did something bad (Islamically) and from then on, i totally lost my trust for her. A knows that i have found out what she did and she confessed to me and told me that she will mend her way. I tried my best to believe her BUT i just CAN'T !!!!!!!! ... I really dunno how to! :( and just now, she called me to help her wif something and i ended up being very sarcastic towards her and i knew that she was very upset wif me. But i just can't help it! everytime i talked to her, i kept thinking of what she had done and that really pisses me off... but i know this is not right. i strongly feel that i should give her a chance to change BUT it's difficult! I often tell myself that i shouldn't be too hard on her but it doesn't seem to work. Please tell me how to handle this. i really love and care for her and i do not want to see her suffer (in this life and the hereafter) - Allah knows best. may Allah give me the strength to overcome this. Please remember in you dua's. Wassalam |
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