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Who would you marry?
Anonymous
02/12/03 at 02:09:44
Selamalaikum, I found this site it seems to be a happy place with many sisters
so I have a very difficult question that I need much aid on! Say that you have option to
marry from 2 brother. One very traditional, is quiet, religious. You know if you marry
him that you will cook, clean and to be one more a mother and support of him. He is so
sweet, pleasant and good. If you marry, you will have a very safe class of life. The other
brother is modern, intelligent, social. You know if you marry him you will go to the
restaurants and socializing, traveling as well as to have a family. He is honest, sincere and
relaxed. His religiousness is not then cultural but he is the almost equal level like the
other. You like both. Who you would so choose to marry to sisters and because '?

Re: Who would you marry?
sister2sister
02/12/03 at 06:25:00
>You know if you marry him that you will cook, clean and to be one more a >mother and support of him.

I didn't quite get that, (one more mother) as in a second wife??? (support of him) financially supporting him???

I like both descriptions and my choice would depend on what I wanted to do in my life.  If I wanted the social, modern life then the modern brother would be a good choice because he wouldn't keep you in the house, he'd let you work and so on.  but if your the housewife type then the traditional brother is the way to go.  If I had to choose only one (which i guess I don't have much chose) I would pick the traditional brother( so long as I'm not supporting him financially) because I'm the quiet housewife type.  I think we'd get along much better than the brother who has a very social life-style.


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