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My friend's a..........
Emerald
05/13/03 at 23:37:22
.......lesbian!

Ok, guys, what would you do? I've been friends with this person for awhile now but I didn't know anything about her personal life. Then one day another friend of mine tells me, "You didn't know?! X is gay!" So as you can all imagine, I was shocked because she didn't seem like she was. Anyway, I haven't treated her any differently ( and I don't think she's knows I know and I wish I didn't know because I don't care about knowing such things!- try saying that five times!  ;) ).
My question here is, as a Muslimah how should I act around her, now that I know?

Re: My friend's a..........
EMILY
05/13/03 at 23:55:11
Salaam Alykum,
Sister if you feel uncomfortable around her now you should tell her what you heard. After all it may not even be true, it could just be a rumor.
Take care.
Wasalaam
Emily
Re: My friend's a..........
Yasmeena
05/14/03 at 21:30:52
[slm]

If your friend IS gay, and you feel comfortable with being around her, share your love for Allah ta 'ala and Islam.  If she accepts what you say and reads up on Islam she may see a way out for herself through Allah ta 'ala.

I know how you feel.  I have a nephew in college who "came out of the closet" with the family 2 years ago.  BUT.  He doesn't want to hear anything about ANY religion.  I guess he knows he will find out that homosexuality is against the laws of Allah/God and he doesn't want that on his conscience.  I still pray that someone, someday will be able to get through to him.

[wlm]
Re: My friend's a..........
samr
05/24/03 at 10:34:22
bsmlahh

[slm]

hhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm.........................................

1.ask her abat the truth.

2.tell her abat the really relegion islam.

3.see what she will say.

and if she is "wich we dont hope" then just leave her.
because then she is a person how don like islam wich means that she is on the devils side.

But insa ALLAH u find out that its nat true because many people lai abat others and say that they r ------

salam


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