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samr |
06/12/03 at 18:16:58 |
bsmlahh [slm] I dont know how to start but anyway mine mothers father is dead 2 or 1 1\2 weeks agoo mine uncel calld us by phone the phone. We or mine pherens havent hear hims voice for over 18 yers. but mine mother didnt get happy because he told her that grandpa was dead and now befor we was going 2 pray the sunset&night pray she told mee that she "mine mother was going 2 read or "speak" suat al-fatiha because its friday night. guess what i didnt only read surat al-fatia but even pray 2rak3at insted of him or 2 him. i dont know if it was good. insha ALLAH it was |
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BroHanif |
06/12/03 at 18:19:01 |
May Allah make it easy on your family at this time. From Allah we are and to Allah we will return. Salaams Hanif |
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a_Silver_Rose |
06/12/03 at 18:22:55 |
[wlm] Insh'Allah it was good. May Allah (swt) forgive him and accept him and May Allah (swt) help your family cope with it. Ameen. |
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samr |
06/12/03 at 18:56:04 |
ye i know i was and am still soo much thinking off al-a5irah that i think its normal i was just thinking its not normal that i am nat crying at him and i really wanne know y hhhmmmmmmmmm............... maby becuase [saw] didnt cry when his sons die or did hee ??? but any way a true muslim shouldn't cry right ? or should he ??? no ? yes ? i really dont know |
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Nabila |
06/12/03 at 19:45:24 |
[slm] Im sorry I cant remember anything more specific, but there are some ahadith that mention about the Prophet [saw] crying so much that the tears ran down his beard. And something else about how crying softens the heart, so you shoudl try to cry?? Maybe someone can help out? ma asalaamah and take care |
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Nomi |
06/12/03 at 20:59:21 |
[wlm] amd [slm] Yes the Prophet [saw] did cry at the death of his son. So one can cry but i dunno that whether one should try to cry or not, just be yourself. [center] [size=4] They say a MAN never cries !! [/size] But i did, when i saw deadly missiles of kuffar burnings innocent Muslims to ashes in Iraq They say a MAN never cries !! But i did, when i saw the Muslims in those containers suffocated-to-death in Afghanistan They say a MAN never cries !! But i did, when a guy from Kashmir told me that they wittness bodies of innocent Muslim sisters floating in the river after they are raped by the kuffar They say a MAN never cries !! But i did, when i saw the mass-graves of Bosnian Muslims, slaughtered by the kuffar They say a MAN never cries !! But i did !!! [/center] wassalam |
06/12/03 at 21:08:37 |
Nomi |
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Sunnah |
06/12/03 at 23:41:50 |
[slm] Innah lillahi wa inna ilahiwarajioon... May Allah be Kind to Your Grandpa...ameen summah ameen... Brother Asim, that was beautiful and touchy. :'( did you write that? [wlm] |
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siddiqui |
06/12/03 at 23:52:36 |
[slm] Innah lillahi wa inna ilahi wa rajioon... May Allah be Kind to Your Grandfather and grant sabr to his family ...ameen [wlm] |
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samr |
06/13/03 at 07:08:30 |
bsmlahh [slm] First of all i want 2 thank u all because of taking time and reading this and then i will tell u that...........that am nat gonne cry. BECAUSE IF a muslim die then thers no reson 2 be sad u do only need to say "C u in the Janah insha ALLAH" and pray for him/her or insted of hime/her. and thats all + du3a 5 or 10 times. thats all Because i heard that After that [saw] cryd then the sun got in "5ossof" then he all the muslims sayd that it was a mirikel but then he stoppt craying and syid (the sun get never in "5ossof" just becuase someone is dead) then all they said even if it was ur own son he said (yes even if it was mine own son).An he STOPT "craying" so am nat gonne try 2 cry but maby the tears comes out by them self :o :D jazaku ALLAHU 5airan and peac. |
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Nomi |
06/13/03 at 08:28:00 |
[slm] [quote] did you write that? [/quote] just out of my frustration... [slm] Asim Zafar |
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sal |
06/13/03 at 09:40:43 |
[slm] samr shading tears of sadness is not bad .it vents and relieves . unless it is crying of opposition to ALLAHS' WILL ..may allah take your grandfhather to heaven . and allah be with you . [wlm] |
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samr |
06/13/03 at 10:37:31 |
u right u know dropping ters is never rong |
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