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| A single sister's questions for the married sister |
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| Rameeza |
| 06/19/03 at 20:10:43 |
| [slm] After your marriage, what characteristics of your hubby do you like and what characteristics do you think he should improve on ??? ??? ??? We all know that piety is the top most, so what else.. ??? Give us single gals some hints on what to look for. As an unmarried person, I along with my pals look for lots of stuff that WE think are important. But as they say 'hind sight is always 20 20', so using your hind sight give us some tips, please :) For example what you looked for as a single woman but realized as a married woman was not as importaqnt as some other stuff... So sisters, chill out [] [] [] and share. |
| Re: A single sister's questions for the married si |
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| sofia |
| 06/19/03 at 20:19:12 |
| As-salaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullah, Rameeza :o I sooo did a pseudo-experiment/survey on my married friends about a year ago on this very topic and posted the "results" [url=http://www.jannah.org/cgi-bin/madina/YaBB.pl?board=archives;action=display;num=1034691015]here[/url]. Weirdly, was just thinking of posting additional findings, but that's for another time, inshaa'Allah. If any of the married sisters care to add on their 2 cents, please feel free to do so. The above survey methods lacked an adequate sample size. :) Hint hint. Modified 6/20/03: Just added a late (ie, slacker) entry |
| 06/20/03 at 08:59:28 |
| sofia |
| Re: A single sister's questions for the married si |
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| IMuslim_4Ever |
| 06/19/03 at 22:16:45 |
| [slm] I am glad that you have started this post sis Rameeza... we, single sisters need these kind of advice... i really like that survey of yours sis sofia, thank you so much. it's very interesting. :) all the advices by third sister was very valuable to me. i liked them. even though i am not married yet, i think that its very important that we have the ability to understand other people. we need to have the quality of dealing with small matters that sometime leads to big chaos. sometime you can hurt a person just by saying something very silly or something that u didn't meant to say, but it just slipped out. "sigh" i usually do that... then i realize my mistake and i feel so bad for hurting ppl. Pray for me sisters...Pray for Muslim Ummah.. ameen [wlm] |
| 06/19/03 at 22:22:51 |
| IMuslim_4Ever |
| Re: A single sister's questions for the married si |
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| Rameeza |
| 06/20/03 at 00:16:42 |
| [wlm] you two! So what about personal qualities..? Strong or soft etc etc Ambitious? more or less than you? Earns more/less money than you? etc etc I think for most women these issues are not always a problem but how do sisters who get married feel that their hubby's feel about these social status issues? Give us the inside scoop..? |
| Re: A single sister's questions for the married si |
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| Lil_Sista |
| 06/21/03 at 02:55:14 |
| [slm] i was engaged but now i become afraid of marriage.i dunno why but im like .....am i ready for this,that,bla bla bla??? :-/ its normal,isnt it? hey sistas! can u *really* cook? ;D ugh,im such a terrible cook ever!it's like that i wasnt born to cook ;D yeah,yeah i'll learn more.i wonder... how i will be able to make my hubby happy if i cant cook,i mean really really cook :'( hey bros(if u read this),what do u say? is it a must? u know... cookin' stuff. peace out! Ki Ki :-) |
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