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DAWN OF A NEW HERO
abdullah2003
06/29/03 at 18:17:30

Salam,
         everyone.My name is abdullah.I am 17 yrs old n i live in karachi.FOr most of u,who dose not know where karachi is.It is in pakistan n pakistan is a country which is in ASIA.
So well i am a new user in town,I have just registared like 2 days ago.I am a pure blood which means (born muslim) n i have a little difficulty keeping my faith .I do not pray at time especially i do not go to mosque.I am a lil hot tempered,I get angry v.easily n i never plan/think before making a important step in my life.
Most of all i have a lot of attraction to opposite sex(female).So it makes it more difficult control my inner power(sexual needs).for me its hard to keep my faith steef cos my sarroundings(friends) r all muslims but they r not, u know wat i mean.
They r worst then me,but i am not the one to judge cos its upto GOD(ALLMIGHTY ALLAH) to judge.but they do notpray a bit, n they drink n do sins of all sorts.
I am a very friendly person i never get rude to anyone accept my mom cos she scold me a lot.I make friends very easily cos i am very funny n talktive.OH sorry i forgot to tell u that which class i am in well i am doing my olevels n inshallah i will finish it very soon.
SO guys thats it i will be concluding my mail, this is jus some basic things i told u of my self.
N one more thing plz tell me how to improve myself n how to make a gentleman out of me.tell some kind of suggestions about how i sould stop talking cos i jus talk very much.n how to make a good friend.
I am in need of ur suggestions plz feel free to grade me or degrade me cos in both ways i can improve my self.
N one last thig if anybody wants to be my friends especially(ladies) :D Jus kidding this is my mailling address (khanboy16@hotmail.com), u can also add me on ur messinger.
I would like to thank 1st of all my GOD(ALLAH) n then Asif bhai for telling me this wonderfull site.
ALLAH HAFIZ n TAKE CARE. :D 8)
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
faisalsb
06/30/03 at 01:25:13
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Well brother being breif and short no one from outside can come and save you or put you on the right path. That's what you have to work for yourself. Once you start helping yourself then automatically you would find your friends, relatives, family etc all of them helpfull to you.

I think advertising one's sins is not something recommended since it worth nothing because if you reveal something what Allah has hidden for you then those sins might not be forgiven.
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
Nomi
06/30/03 at 06:38:01
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[quote author=abdullah2003 link=board=bebzi;num=1056921452;start=0#0 date=06/29/03 at 18:17:30]
khanboy16@hotmail.com), u can also add me on ur messinger.
I would like to thank 1st of all my GOD(ALLAH) n then Asif bhai for telling me this wonderfull site.[/quote]

HEY!!! Don't tell me !!! You even got my name wrong, its ASIM :). I was reading this post and things sounded familiar, i thought that its u but doubted it, then finally ur email ID solved the puzzle.

Welcome to the board and i thought you moved to Canada, whats the story ?

ASIM Zafar :)
06/30/03 at 07:53:18
Nomi
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
sabri
06/30/03 at 08:44:52
[slm]
  Welcome to the board and enjoy yourself here insha Allah.  ;-)
[wlm]
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
Ameeraana
06/30/03 at 23:53:00
[slm]

 Welcome to the board.  Well, its a good thing you are trying to find advice on how to be a better Muslim, but especially about your struggle with the opposite sex--just remember the best advice you can get from the Qur'an--lower your gaze.  It may sound simple but its probably one the most dificult things to accomplish for men and women as there is lots of temptation out there...

   I hope you enjoy it here as everyone is very helpful.

Ameera
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
WhiteSomali
07/01/03 at 17:06:38
[quote author=abdullah2003 link=board=bebzi;num=1056921452;start=0#0 date=06/29/03 at 18:17:30]
Most of all i have a lot of attraction to opposite sex(female).So it makes it more difficult control my inner power(sexual needs)[/quote]

Narrated 'Abdullah:

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."

(Sahih Bukhari)

Soo, in addition to praying five times a day and aksin Allah for help in tha matter, try to fast on Mondays and Thursdays.
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
rajullunyas-aa
07/03/03 at 12:11:16
[slm],
u are welcome,enjoy all it has to offer.
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
Nomi
07/13/03 at 17:47:55
[slm]

Abdullah many thanks for the phone call, i've sent you an email and i'm hoping that you'll listen to that sermon. Bros and sisters in here gave you some nice piece of advice, going through them again will help too inshAllah.

peeps hes really a nice boy who is striving to improve, pray for him inshAllah.

Asim Zafar.
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
yumna
07/14/03 at 06:15:22
welcome aboard :) [slm] hope u like it here! i no u would tell me who wouldnt????
Re: DAWN OF A NEW HERO
yumna
07/14/03 at 07:48:47
Irrelevant; i love ur name "abdullah " my bro 's name is abdullah too ... :-[then again ur a bro tooo any way welcome aboard! ;D


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