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| abdullah2003 |
| 07/01/03 at 11:57:55 |
| [slm] ITS me again.well i have some favor to ask 4 u guys.Well i am again got in some shitty problem. well this is how it gose.Some months ago,i was involved in some bad habits n i had some bad friends.So i used hang out with them 4 like late nites n i stooped praying.I was becoming rude to people day by day.When my parents got asleep i used to sneek out from the house n hang around with them.they do all sorts of sins. But My LORD loved me n HE saved me when it was getting to late.HE saved me from the pure evil that had parasited in me n was growing stronger.HE(ALLAH) showed me a miraculas thing that changed my life. AS if i was struck by a lightning bolt.ANY ways next day i wokeup n promised my LORD that i will be among the believers. So i started to ignore them.At first they all pleaded for me to come back to their gang but i kindly said no.N when they had enough they started to tease me n make bloopers on me. Well as i told u before i am a lil hot tempered n GOD made me much more stronger then a normal person.Those guys used to call me hulk when i was in their gang.But now in islam fighting n anger is a sin so i controled my self. But now is enough i cant hold on any longer.I have to confront them, i can easily take them all one handed n i will give them a fight that they will remamber their whole life.N they all want this thing to happen. SO I dont want this thing to happen but i cant control it any more their teasings.Well from u people i jus want ur opinions on this. Do i Fight or not.Or if not then plz tell me some surah or some method to control my self. I know u people will help me. ;) |
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| Nomi |
| 07/01/03 at 13:35:50 |
| Assalamo Alaikum Abdullah, how about you pulling your toungue out and tease em, that'll teach them a lesson :P Okay seriously speaking, try not to fight as it'll only make things worse. Hey, why dont you get a sand bag and let it face your wrath instead ;) [slm] Asim Zafar. |
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| sunset |
| 07/01/03 at 21:12:21 |
| [slm] My advice to you is DO NOT fight at all. Physical fighting or tongue fighting will not make things better but it can worsen matters. I am not very sure which surah can help you control yourself from fighting but I know a few sayings which relate to your feelings right now. *He is not strong and powerful, who throws people down, but he is strong who withholds himself from anger (Rasullullah saw) *The biggest pardoner is he who forgives in spite of being strong enough to retaliate (Saidina Husayn AS) *The strong man is not the good wrestler; the strong man is only the one who controls himself when he is angry (Bukhari, Muslim) [wlm] |
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| Trustworthy |
| 07/07/03 at 17:21:35 |
| [slm] Anger comes from the Shaytan so say "A'oothu billahi minashaitan nirajeem" meaning "I seek shelter from Allah away from Shaytan." Ignore the bad and the good will take over. Don't fight them in the physical sense. Do it the logical way and tell them the truth. Preach or give them a lecture about your new better life. Insha-Allah, they'll see the same light you did. Ma-asalaama... |
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| WhiteSomali |
| 07/07/03 at 19:34:54 |
| [slm] When you're angry it helps to pray 2 rakas, seek refuge in Allah, and drink lotsa water. Also try not to put too much emphasis on other peoples opinions of you. Jus aks them why they care so much about you.. You be 15, right? If your friends are as old as you, I'm amazed they doin such stupid tinz. by this age mos people consider anyone who tries to seriously bully other people to be moronz... Maybe tha's just a difference in our cultures, I dun know. [wlm] |
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