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ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
SwordOfAllah
07/02/03 at 21:54:49
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haha, well i still need to grow n live for like 6 years till i get married, but for now, u guys........

 Tell me ur romantic ways to satisfy ur wife or ideas for za next generation after u!!!!

 a plan that u would set up for ur wife or futur wife to make her happy!!!

*kinda hard, but lets try it........

  i want it to be long.......very long



 [wlm]
Sword Of Allah
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
muahmed
07/03/03 at 00:44:11
[slm] ;-)

Stop thinking about marriage kiddo. You will know when your time comes.

I see too many kids trying to learn the 'fiqh' of marriage and related issues for some vicarious enjoyment.



Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Nomi
07/03/03 at 07:49:37
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hm.. that "Revolutionary List" seems to be having somewhat bad impact on unmarried ppl :P ... but being anti-pda always helps ;)

[quote author=SwordOfAllah link=board=bro;num=1057193689;start=0#0 date=07/02/03 at 21:54:49]    
i want it to be long.......very long
[/quote]

Okay, here you go...

LooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooong;)

[slm]
Asim Zafar.

PS: written in humor
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Kathy
07/03/03 at 09:33:55
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May I suggest you ask the women? They just may know better ...

I know of a husband who brought his wife a golf club change holder back after a long business trip.

[i]she doesn't play golf...[/i]

What a man may think is romantic ...just may not be...
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Al-Basha
07/09/03 at 02:56:38
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What's wrong with the revolutionary list?

Ok except for the posts by The Desert Prince

*cough cough* Nomi


[quote author=Nomi link=board=bro;num=1057193689;start=0#2 date=07/03/03 at 07:49:37][slm]

hm.. that "Revolutionary List" seems to be having somewhat bad impact on unmarried ppl :P ... but being anti-pda always helps ;)


Okay, here you go...

LooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooooOooooOoooooong;)

[slm]
Asim Zafar.

PS: written in humor[/quote]
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
jannah
07/12/03 at 06:44:01
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Trustworthy guess who sword of Allah is.. u'll never guess... he must have been around 5 when u were last here... anyhow the young bro really is asking for marriage advice... Ma'shallah 10 years before he should.. Guess the bro believes in being prepared ;)
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Trustworthy
07/14/03 at 02:44:28
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Hmmmm.....my bad.  Sorry bout that brother.  Jannah...I'm very bad at geusses.  But 5, huh?  *in deep thought*

Nope, I can give a few geusses, but to you little bro....do wait for marraige.  Don't rush into it.  It's terrible now a days when I see young people start out before they have any career goals.

They get stuck at low paying jobs.  I hate that.  Ask me when you're a little older then I'll give you some pointers from a sister's point.

Ma-asalaama.....
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Nomi
07/14/03 at 08:29:55
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[quote author=Trustworthy link=board=bro;num=1057193689;start=0#7 date=07/14/03 at 02:44:28]
They get stuck at low paying jobs.  I hate that.
[/quote]

Striving for a better life? yes... one should do it as its ebadah but we should keep in mind that not everyone gets a high paying job and many do get low paying ones. Let the expectations be low so that unrest can be avoided.

There is a hadith that says "When it comes to deen look at those who are better than you and when it comes to worldly matters, look at those who have got less than what you have" ..[i] (haven't got the reference right now)[/i]

This is a nice way to/(try to) achieve satisfaction. That said, one should strive for betterment.
Hope i made sense.
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Asim Zafar.
Re: ways to satisfy our wives, ahhm(future wife)me
Trustworthy
07/14/03 at 12:32:33
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You make sense.  No worries there, and I know that hadith well.  I read it so many times that I am now content with what I have, al-hamdulillah and I still strive for better of course, but I don't complain anymore.

All that I'm saying is that these youn married couples get married so young and so quick to start families that they have no time to persue their dreams or goals.  Sometimes I wonder if they have any.  They seem content with working at restaurants as waiters/waitresses or malls.  Maybe they hide it well, but they don't do anything else or even try to.

I ask them about continuing their education after marraige since they've just graduated from HS.  Only one young couple agreed, but the rest is like, I've been educated fro 12 yrs, I don't to go anymore.  That's what I hate.  I don't know.  I care about them, but i don't know how to help them.  I offered a class in making resumes and interviews, etc.  Not one youngster showed up.  Only the middle aged group showed.  I don't knw.  I'm just rambling.

Ma-asalaama.....


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