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| Muslimah2008 |
| 07/15/03 at 16:16:04 |
| [slm] :-) wow i havent been on here in a while :)....my other name was Muslimah08 if u were jus wondering....WELL on to the subject....not that this is happening to me :D....but what if ( it would be easier for me to use names but these arent real people that i kno) ok lets say Sarah is muslim....but wasnt really.....MUSLIM :o, she was jus Muslim by name.....and so she started going out with ....Bob who is Christian....and sooner or later time passed....and they fell in love and deeper and deeper love until they wanted to get married :o......but as the time passed Sarah became more and more educated in Islam....so she realized she couldnt marry him....unless he was Muslim.......but by then she was in to deep to let go so.... :( :'( NOW is she supposed to leave her love ......or ......even though i kno this is wrong MARRY HIM....jus think about it....its kinda like losing a family member...Espeacially if u were in love that much......IM NOT SAYING SHE SHOULD OR NOT...i jus wanted to kno...but befor...u type she should leave him.....THINK ABOUT IT PLZZZZ!!!....well..... [wlm] :-) ;D ....wel bye now...have a nice day oh yea- this post wasnt writin to start a conflict :(...and this story isnt true ....AGAIN - i jus wanted to kno! :-* oh yea and what if he were to change into Islam to marryy her but he was gonna stay Muslim i heard that was Haram is it?... [wlm] ( again ) :-X |
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| Trustworthy |
| 07/15/03 at 16:43:59 |
| [slm] Islamically if she reverted back to Islam then she should break up the relationship since she does not want to commit zina. As hard as that may seem, that's what goes. If the man wants to persue her after and he looks into the religion because of that, it's ok. However, if he does not accept it at heart and says he does then yes that it is haram. If he does accept it at heart then he will know to wait 2/3 yrs until he can marry her (I think.) 2 yrs will give her enough time to think about never going astray again, insha Allah. Both need patience. But I'm no scholar. Ask a knowledgable person. He should give you the correct advice. Mine is just based on what I can remember from Talim. And there are a few situations like that in my community as well. Allahu Alim. Ma-asalaama.... |
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| Muslimah2008 |
| 07/15/03 at 16:53:06 |
| [slm] :-) thank you VEEEERRRY much for replying. :-X.....so ur saying if he decides to accept it at heart they should wait 2 yrs. so theyll be sure both of them wont go astray?...... thanx ..... ;D but if anyone else has advice PLZZZZZZZZZZZ help! [wlm] |
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| Trustworthy |
| 07/15/03 at 18:18:15 |
| [slm] yes sister and you're welcome. Ma-asalaama.... |
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