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Unrestrained glances
Nisa
07/17/03 at 07:18:36
Unrestrained Glances

The unrestrained glance results in the one who looks becoming attracted to what he sees, and in the imprinting of an image of what he sees in his heart This can result in several kinds of corruption in the heart of the servant The following are a number of them:  

It has been related that the Prophet [saw] once said words to the effect: "The glance is a poisoned arrow of shaytan. Whoever lowers his gaze for Allah, He will bestow upon him a refreshing sweetness which he will find in his heart on the day that he meets Him."

Shaytan enters with the glance, for he travels with it, faster than the wind blowing through an empty place. He makes what is seen appear more beautiful than it really is, and transforms it into an idol for the heart to worship. Then he promises it false rewards, lights the fire of desires within it, and fuels it with the wood of forbiddan actions, which the servant would not have comitted had it not been for this distorted image.

This distracts the heart and makes it forget its more important concerns. It stands between it and them; and so the heart loses its straight path and falls into the pit of desire and ignorance. Allah, Mighty and Glorious is He, says:

"And do not obey anyone whose heart We have made forgetful in remembering Us - who follows his own desires, and whose affair has exceeded all bounds." ( 18:28 )

The unrestrained gaze causes all three afflictions.

It has been said that between the eye and the heart is an immediate connection; if the eyes are corrupted, then the heart follows. It becomes like a rubbish heap where all the dirt and filth and rottenness collect, and so there is no room for love for Allah, relating all matters to Him, awareness of being in His presence, and feeling joy at His proximity - only the opposite of these things can inhabit such a heart. Staring and gazing without restraint is disobedience to Allah:

"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that is more purifying for them. Surely Allah is aware of what they do." (24:30)

Only the one who obeys Allah's commands is content in this world, and only the servant who obeys Allah will survive in the next world.

Furthermore, letting the gaze roam free cloaks the heart with darkness, just as lowering the gaze for Allah clothes it in light. After the above ayah, Allah, the Glorious and Mighty, says in the same surah of the Qur'an:

"Allah is the light of the heavens and the earth: the likeness of His light is as if there were a niche, and in the niche is a lamp, and in the lamp is a glass, and the glass as it were a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an olive, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil is well nigh luminous, though fire scarce touched it. Light upon light. Allah guides whomever He wants to His Light. Allah strikes metaphors for man; and Allah knows all things." (24:35)

When the heart is a light, countless good comes to it from all directions. If it is dark, then clouds of evil and afflictions come from all directions to cover it up.

Letting the gaze run loose also makes the heart blind to distinguishing between truth and falsehood, between the sunnah and innovation; while lowering it for Allah, the Might and Exalted, gives it a penetrating, true and distinguishing insight.

A righteous man once said: "Whoever enriches his outward behaviour by following the sunnah, and makes his inward soul wealthy through contemplation, and averts his gaze away from looking at what is forbidden, and avoids anything of a doubtful nature, and feeds solely on what is halal - his inner sight will never falter."

Rewards for actions come in kind. Whoever lowers his gaze from what Allah has forbidden, Allah will give his inner sight abundant light.

[slm]

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07/17/03 at 08:24:12
Nisa
Re: Unrestrained glances
timbuktu
07/19/03 at 00:12:28
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subhanallah & jazakalluhu khayran

would it be possible for you or someone else to reflect on & enlighten us on other ways by which this corruption can enter the heart?

in the old days, written letters were also means by which shaytan induced impure desires in the heart

in these days of unrestricted use of the internet, while much good is available, so is corruption. not on this, but on some other boards, i have seen evidence of this. can someone reflect, & advise on taking measures to protect ourselves?
07/19/03 at 00:20:30
timbuktu
Re: Unrestrained glances
Nisa
07/19/03 at 08:54:29
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Ameen wa iyakum.  Very good points you brought up akhi....there are surely different ways and means other than eye contact or physical presence which can initiate impure thoughts and inclinations.

As you rightly said, the internet can be a source of good, but it has its pitfalls.  Prophet Muhammad  [saw] told us to speak what is good or keep quiet.  Often the concept of free mixing and its prohibition is disregarded in the confines of the internet, although I can't for the life of me think why  ???

Ways to protect ourselves.....simple...refrain from talking to those of the opposite sex...no matter how pure your intentions are, shaytaan is constantly trying to lead you to ways displeasing to the Almighty.  It's our job to avoid all of the above and more by controlling our actions and that which we say.

I'd love to hear the opinion and advice from as many ikhwaan wa akhwaat as possible inshaAllah :)

May Allah swt guide us all on the Straight path, Ameen.

[wlm]  :-)
07/19/03 at 09:09:24
Nisa


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