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Trustworthy
08/07/03 at 15:37:57
[slm]

How about we have a mutual respect to not post anything in the Brother's thread and they do the same for us?  I'm sure there are things that we want to discuss without having the fear of a Brother reading it, right?  And I'm sure they feel the same.  I've asked them about this and we'll see what their response is.

There is a Bebzi stand where we can all respectfully mix if we have questions for each other.

If not there is a way to hard core the blockages from them and us.  What do you all think?  Good?

Ma-asalaama....
Re: Hey Sisters?
jannah
08/07/03 at 16:43:03
[wlm]

There's no way we can stop people from reading each other's threads. Right now we don't have the technology for that, so I don't think we should forcibly try to introduce an honor system, like saying "Fear Allah" etc.  If there are things that are too private to be discussed with the other gender for the sake of haya' then they should not be discussed here because this is a very public board, and the brothers and sisters know each other and interact with each other.

We've had multiple discussions on this and always come to the conclusion that this is the best way -- ie not to have 'this is a sisters only/ brothers only  thread' type exclusivity. This is also a rule in our constitution.
08/07/03 at 16:44:57
jannah
Re: Hey Sisters?
Kathy
08/07/03 at 16:47:48
[slm]

Do what I usually do... read the topics... to learn... and only write when someone really irritates you!
Re: Hey Sisters?
shieldsoffaith
08/07/03 at 17:18:18
[slm] [slm]

When I first started posting here I noticed this right off and wondered about it?

I was posting on another site where only members were allowed to post.  The areas were password protected.   These were the only areas that all others could not read or post.

It seems to me that brothers should have respect for the privacy of the women.

Usually when this happens however there is talk that women are either misbehaving or spending time in useless behavior.

However, again I say that women should not let those who say these things about them guide them.  

We should be allowed to our privacy without being slandered.

I hope I am not out of line here.

[wlm] [wlm]
Re: Hey Sisters?
Lil_Sista
08/08/03 at 01:54:11
[slm]

sounds good but as sis jannah said there's no way to stop ppl from reading the threads now maybe later it will be possible.....no? ???  ???  ???
Re: Hey Sisters?
Trustworthy
08/08/03 at 13:00:03
[slm]

No worries then.  

Ma-aslaama.....


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