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4 Wives
Halima
08/24/03 at 12:01:42
The Four Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives

4th Wife
He loved the 4th wife the most.
He adorned her with rich robes and treated her with the best of luxury.
He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

3rd Wife
He also love the 3rd wife very much.
He was very proud of her and always showed her off to his friends.
However, the merchant was always in great fear of losing her to another man.

2nd Wife
He loved his 2nd wifetoo.
She was a very considerate person, always patient
and in fact, the merchant's confidante.
Whenever the merchant faced some problems
he would always turn to his 2nd wife and she would
help him through difficult times.

1st Wife
Now, the merchant's 1st wife was a very loyal partner
and had made great contribution towards maintaining his
wealth and business as well as taking care of the household.

However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although
she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill.  Before long, he knew that he was
going to die soon.  He thought of his luxurious life and told himself,
"Now I have 4 wives with me.  But when I die, I'll be alone.
How lonely I'll be!".

Thus, he asked his 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with
the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?"  "No way!" replied the 4th wife
and she walked away without another word.  The answer cut like a sharp
knife right into the merchant's hear.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much
for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No!", replied the 3rd wife.  "Life is so good over hare!  I'm going to remarry
when you die!"  The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked his 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've
always helped me out. Now, I need your help again. When I die, will you
follow me and keep company?"  "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!",
replied the 2nd wife.  "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave".
The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated!

Then a voice called out:  "I'll leave with you.  I'll follow you no matter where
you go".  The merchant looked up and there was his 1st wife.  She was
so skinny, almost as if she suffered from malnutrition.  Greatly grieved,
the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while
I could have!"

Actually we
all have 4
wives in our lives,..

The 4th wife is our body
No matter how much time and effort we
lavish in making it look good, it'll leave
us when we die.

Our 3rd wife
is our possessions, status and wealth
When we die, they all go to others

The 2nd wife
is our family and friends
No matter how close they had been there
for us when we're alive, the farthest they
can stay by us is up to the grave.

The 1st wife
something you can't see
is in fact our soul
Often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth
and sensual pleasure.  it is actually the only thing
that follows us wherever we go.  Perhaps it's a good
idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than
to wait until we're on our deathbed to lament.



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