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question b4 gettin married
strivinsista
08/29/03 at 20:57:33
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to nervous to ask :$

everyone was talkin bout my marriage ( which i can't tell until its official)  and my mom asked me " who called while i was out " and i accidently took out the guyz name .... and everyone who were there were like "  :o she must me that crazy bout this guy " i cried crazy and my sister who was acting dumb didn't let me go to my room all though i pinched her arms and pulled her hair to let me go to the room ..... it was embarassing cuz i took the guyz name out .... is everyone gonna talk to my future
IN LAWS about how much i like this guy ? cuz its embarassing i didn't mean to take the guyz name out it was seriously an accident ... am confused i don't no what to do : ( i feel like stopping this marriage but i don't want to .... i need advice : ( i don't no if n e sister been in this situation
only embarassing thing was my sister made me  sit in front of the family and made me cry :( and everyone was Awwwwing :(

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Re: question b4 gettin married
Kathy
08/30/03 at 10:57:31
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Tee hee.

Yeah, I know.. not the first reaction you want to read!

But it is sooo cute!

You are crazy abut the man you are going to marry. This is a good thing. The relatives are most probably thrilled to see that you are so "crazy" for him. Why was it so bad for them to know?

If you are thinking of canceling the wedding because of an incident like this, I would seriously consider the fact that you are not ready to marry him.

From an older persons perspective.. we  enjoy wittnessing new love as it unfolds. For many of us it has wonderful warm reminders. It is nothing to cry about.

On a side note... I understand, kinda, why you were embarrassed...but to cry? Is there more to the story that you have left out?
Re: question b4 gettin married
A_Stranger
08/31/03 at 10:45:19
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:o  You mentioned the guy's name?!  :o :o Biiiiiig mistake!!!

::)

:D Rayya: You're a nutter.  

;D
Chill, people will forget about this in a few months time...maybe a few years time... maybe till after you have grandkids... ;)
Seriously tho, don't worry bout it... its good to hayaa  :-X Nothin' to be  :'( ing about =P

By the way, congrats ;D  After you're officially hitched, don't forget your ol' mates at Madinat Al-Muslimeen. :)

Take it easy,

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