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any1 knows where chiq is??
yumna
09/30/03 at 16:10:06
[slm]every ...or any1 knowz where is chiq i mean i have been tryin 2 contact her but got no reply for ssoooo long is she alrite  ??? ??? :( :(did i miss somthin is she like...um gettin married o busy or ...SOMTHING.. plzz some..any1 who knowz plz do let me know ok thank u
:-) [wlm]
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
Nomi
09/30/03 at 16:25:13
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Chiq wasn't feeling well but is getting better i guess, she posted as anon in this thread [url=http://www.jannah.org/cgi-bin/madina/YaBB.pl?board=bebzi;action=display;num=1064539380] [color=Orange]My moms eyes [/color][/url]

wassalam
09/30/03 at 16:27:19
Nomi
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
yumna
10/01/03 at 10:31:03
[slm]o my god i didn't no i'll pray for her...inshallah she changed her name as Nur_al_Layl?
wat happened 2 her? do u no?? [slm] :-)
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
yumna
10/01/03 at 10:38:46
[slm][quote][/she posted as anon in this thread My moms ]um...o sorry didn't read that part ...so she posted anonymously ..but how do u no its chiq! huh?
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salaampeaceshalom
10/01/03 at 10:40:41
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lol,  ;), if u read the anon post v carefully, u will see that halfway, i think, she has written her name 'chiq' in there.  That's how we know its her  :)

wa'salaam
10/01/03 at 10:41:28
salaampeaceshalom
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
paula
10/02/03 at 04:12:19
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Jazak Allahu Khairan Sister Yumna for asking about Sis Chiq.... I too was wondering how she had been doing.

Very happy to hear you are fairing better, Alhamdu lillah  .... I do pray you regain your full health within a very short time here... Insha' Allah.

Kind of at a loss for words ...... but found these word of Said Nursi were pretty nice & thought to share.........

[center]"The best, finest, sweetest, most immediate fruit and result of supplication is this, that the person who offers it knows there is someone who listens to his voice, sends a remedy for his ailment, takes pity on him, and whose hand of power reaches everything."

~~ Masha' Allah ~~
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Hope to hear you're doing better soon !

Please take care Sister Chiq
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[wlm]
10/02/03 at 04:13:19
paula
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
chiq
10/02/03 at 19:51:03
Asalaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

Aaah I feel loved :) Jazakallahu kheiran from the bottom of my struggling heart my dears; I have never heard so many kind words at once. Special thanks to Yumna, Salaampeaceshalom, Simply_Sister, Hania, Umm Wafi, Maliha, JustOne, Savaira, Nisa, Mohja, br Muhammad Ahmed, and Nomi. Thank you so much for caring, and sorry if I made any of you panic!  :-[ May Allah unite us in Paradise.

Subhanallah I feel as though I too am guilty of flaunting Rabia Basri's hated bandage for a soupcon amid eternity  :'( How I huffed and puffed as though climbing a mountain, and I turn to see I merely stepped over a knoll. However, the Muslims are mujahideen, and a mujahid has a sense of humour. Nothing to make you forget your overweening pride or crippling regret, and thereby steer you back onto the noble path of humility, than a hearty laugh at your own foolishness, just like the affectionate laugh of a parent at the antics of his child ;D Alhamdulillah.

But speaking of parents and children...

Whenever someone has posted in Naseeha about familial problems, the waterworks have started, because they invariably struck a chord with me. You see, one of the hardest things I found during this illness was the fact that I had to hide it from my parents, because I knew that they would have turned it into a reason to lament THEIR OWN ill fortune, and curse Allah for punishing them thus. As it happened, they berated me for my inexplicable withdrawal...well, it’s true I didn’t behave very well  :'( You see, I fatally began to EXPECT them to help me, forgetting that expectations tend to be specific, and often close off tolerance of people’s inability to understand, or their idiosyncratic ways of showing that they care. Expectations make a person attention-seeking and selfish. I’ve seen people take these vices to the extreme and destroy themselves, and I am aghast that I should have stepped out onto that road. Was my terrible hurt caused my knowing that parents’ displeasure is heard in the Heavens, or was it my own selfish pride? I know not. All I can ashamedly whisper is that the time came that I thought to myself had praying for death been allowed, I should certainly have done so. But Allah is most Karim, and He pulled me back from madness yet again...

Ya Rabbi forgive this craven soul for her weakness. And bestow upon my parents Your mercy, as they did bring me up when I was young. Verily, I could not be here now, alive and young and much blessed, without them.

And mothers and fathers on this board, note this well. A single word from you may make or break your child’s life, your passing zephyr may be his murderous tempest. Care for them, never let them feel worthless, treat them with the respect you would have others pay YOU. And know that your children are finally NOT YOURS. They are a passing ray of sunshine in your home, a trust most precious from Ar Rahman, but a trust all the same that you must eventually let go. Imaan is your first gift to them, let trust be your last, for that will send them out into the world with heart and mind secure and loving and healing. And may you and yours be blessed!

Oh Allah, You have spoken the truth – there is always hope, ALWAYS. I shake off the yoke of my selfish nafs, and resume my hijrah towards it today.

Wasalaam
10/02/03 at 19:53:33
chiq
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
theOriginal
10/02/03 at 20:10:53
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SubhanAllah.  Your post gets me to think about my parents, and how much they have done for me.  And how, if I ever am in trouble, they hurt more than I.  I love them SOO much.  Alhamdulillah.  :'(  One of the many, many things I have to be grateful for...

Glad to have you back with us.  I was beginning to miss your insight. ;)

Wasalaam.
Re: any1 knows where chiq is??
yumna
10/03/03 at 06:23:26
[slm]CHIQ! alhamdullillah ur back! thatz a very nice article u rote back there it shook my heart  :'(
very happpppyyyy  have u back!!! :-X :-* :-)
[wlm]


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