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| How do you help someone find a wife |
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| Caraj |
| 11/21/03 at 00:19:28 |
| If you know of a brother who is looking for a wife and asks your help how do you go about it? What if you do not personally know this brother? Kathy are you helping some in these type matters? Is anyone else? |
| Re: How do you help someone find a wife |
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| onemuslimgirl |
| 11/21/03 at 19:52:37 |
| Sr. Azizah, my favorite pastime hobby....matchmaking....please send me an email with the specifics and since i have a ton of sisters i know about, inshAllah i hope i caj help you hook him up with someone.... |
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| yumna |
| 11/22/03 at 06:02:46 |
| [slm] :Dooh sista i also had a bro who asked 2 find him awife an well ...i just told him i m really sorry but i don't no any1 here who's seekin a hubby...an uno wat i was scared i mean if it didn't work out btw the wife i chose for him an all....it would b my fault atleast i'll consider it 2 b my fault and all.. ??? ???ok i mite b confusin u rite now rite? ok then Masalaam :-* :-) |
| Re: How do you help someone find a wife |
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| onemuslimgirl |
| 11/22/03 at 10:52:37 |
| asalaam alakum, No it wouldn't be your fault because your are just introducing them to each other. it is their responsibilty after that to research each others background, to do istikhara prayers, and to think about it rationally. Usually when I help to match someone I explain that to them ahead of time, and let them know that the final decision is theirs, therefore they can't blame me. Also, what is written for them is written; It was going to happen if I was the one to introduce them or not. Allah wanted it to happen and I was just the means for them to get together. |
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| Kathy |
| 11/22/03 at 11:00:43 |
| [slm] Not really. A few messages come across my way, and i do what I can. I really do not know that many single sisters and because of the strict seperation at our masjid... no brothers! However, I would sure be an asset at the "interviewing table!" |
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