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| To the brothers on the board |
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| Caraj |
| 11/21/03 at 13:18:33 |
| I have a sincere request to the brothers on the board. It is sincere and with an honorable reason behind it. Can you try responding a little more to the sisters on the board like they were your blood sister or even like they were your daughters. Us sisters can comfort and advise other sisters, but I am thinking it would do many of us good to get a mans opinion on things. Example: Post about NEW MARRIAGE If you were a kind man and a good Muslim and this was you, if she left you would be sitting there hurt and scatching your head thinking WHAT DID I DO? If this was your wife what time frame or communication would you hope she would give you I think if you can put yourselves in position as a brother, father or as the one it is happening to and offer advice on what the other side would appreciate, it may help some sisters. ANOTHER EXAMPLE: The sister with concerns before marriage, if you were the guy how would you want to be approached about this and also if this was your daughter or blood sister how would you advise her based on his possible many reactions? I am not saying you bro's don't respond many do and are wonderful, I am just requesting a little more, if I may. Thank you and may Allah reward you greatly for your kindness ;) |
| 11/21/03 at 13:21:03 |
| Caraj |
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