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Coming Soon! Next Change!
Barr
12/04/03 at 05:33:42
[slm] warahmatullah

My dear Madinah Family,

After being harassed and hounded by a member of the board whom I shall not mention.. suffice to say, this tough guy uses oil of olay and has a passion for changing diapers and grape jelly sandwiches....

So.. here goes...  :)

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Things happen when you least expect it... and as for me, the past couple of months have been very eventful, mashaAllah.

The day when I will complete half of my deen will come soon. In exactly 4 weeks time, inshaAlllah.

I'd like to personally and publically thank the following hearts, for being a part of the BIG divine plan :)[/color]

[color=red]D' Intelligence Team [/color]

Jannah aka Ignitor ... for [size=3]Everything[/size] (((Special Big Hugssss)))  :-*

se7en aka Undercover Agent ... for your swift recognition qualities and espionage :)

Deenb4dunya aka Emissary ... for da link to your mommy and espionage too ;)


[color=red]D' Brokerage Team[/color]

Maliha aka Connector ... for your belief and neverending hope, dreams and fighting spirit ;)

Deenb4dunya's Mommy aka D'Broker ... for your facilitation, aid, and naseeha :)


And most of all, I thank Allah for allowing me to taste some of His ni'mah and blessings...

Please do drop in some naseeha for me and others who would be embarking on this humbling journey to draw closer to Him.

Please make du'a for us
Wassalam  :-)

P.S. Happy Belated Eid Mubarak!
12/04/03 at 05:35:28
Barr
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
jannah
12/04/03 at 05:39:31
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It's about time you made it public.. congrats sis.. May Allah join you together in every goodness and khair. Our duas are with you!! and finally we'll be on the same continent!!

Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Maliha
12/04/03 at 07:09:54
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Mashaallah :) Hold on I am too emotional... :'( :'( ...
May Allah grant you mad Barakah in your union:) bestow upon you righteous and habby children :-* and make this the beginning of yet another blessed chapter in your eternal journey towards him :)
i am sooooo happy for you dear sis {{{{{{{{huggggggssss}}}}}} :-*

my only piece of advice...you are human and you are marrying another human...never forget that aight? ;)

muahahahahaa....you know i love you Fee sabillillah..and I would be hounding you if you forget 8)

Sis in struggle, love, pain, journey, habbiness, and Inshaallah Jannah  :-)

[wlm]
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Fozia
12/04/03 at 08:03:22
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Congratulations and I second Sr. Maliha.
BTW does this mean you now have interesting rishta tales to share with us???


Wassalaam
12/04/03 at 13:29:26
Fozia
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
gift
12/04/03 at 10:01:14
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Mubrook barr - may Allah 'azza wa jall make u both soooooo  happy :-*

So you're moving to the US huh??? How do you feel about that - excited/nervous/happy - all of the above ;)

[wlm]
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
SisNur
12/04/03 at 10:15:09
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Congratulations Sis Barr. May Allah bless this wonderful union. Insha'Allah.

Salaams
SisNur  :-)
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
se7en
12/04/03 at 10:52:31
as salaamu alaykum,

:-* :-* :-*

awwwwwww..

I pray that Allah pours His rahma and baraka like rain down on this marriage and makes it a source of peace, tranquility and incredible happiness in this life and the hereafter for both you and your hubby to be.. Ameen..

you guys are such good people.. it's a beautiful match, masha'Allah.. I'm so happy :'(
12/04/03 at 10:53:25
se7en
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
theOriginal
12/04/03 at 13:50:12
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You mean you're not going to tell the rest of us WHO IT IS?  

MashaAllah sister, that's great.  May Allah bless your marriage :)

Wasalaam.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
umm_ibby
12/04/03 at 14:25:58
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"Deenb4dunya's Mommy aka D'Broker ... for your facilitation, aid, and naseeha "

interesting, does that mean ottawa?

congrats!

Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
BroHanif
12/04/03 at 14:31:24
Salaams,

Wow oh my gosh your getting married, wow, thats such good news. Excellant!. Oh I'm over the moon Sis. Aww so sweet, you've made my day.

Salaams

Hanif
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Mohja
12/04/03 at 14:41:54
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Alf Alf Alf Mabrook Barr  :-*  Mash'Allah this is great news!  Indeed one never knows where their rizq is :)

May Allah[swt] increase you in blessings and make this marriage the epitome of mawaddah wa rahmah and a means of getting closer to Him[awj]. Ameen.

wassalam

Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
deenb4dunya
12/04/03 at 19:28:38
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Who would have thought?!? What a surprise...  :P

[i]Baraka Allahu lakoma wa baraka 3alaykoma
wa jama'a baynakoma fi khayr insha' Allah[/i]

Can't wait till you move to Ottawa  :-* :-* :-*

And I can't believe he uses oil of olay and enjoys changing diapers  :o... that's serious ammunition man!! ;D

Anyways....CONGRATS

[wlm]
12/04/03 at 19:30:05
deenb4dunya
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
yumna
12/06/03 at 09:57:19
[slm] :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*ooo congrats sista ur getting married!!!!!! ok at first i never understood but when every1 started congragulating i understood y they were congratgulating anyway hope u lead a verrrrrrryyy happy and blessed married life!!! :-) :-* ;D
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
timbuktu
12/06/03 at 11:19:13
[slm] with all the mabrooks & congrats & all that has gone on here

i think we all now deserve to know who the lucky guy is

may you both live happily ever after, with the little Barr's that are sure to come along  :)
12/06/03 at 11:20:58
timbuktu
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Abu_Hamza
12/08/03 at 00:12:07
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Sr. Barr :)

Masha Allah.  I cannot describe to you the joy I felt when I first heard of this news from you, and today as I read this thread, I feel that same joy over again :)

Mabrook yaa ukhti.  I dont know who I'm more happy for.  You or your fiance.  May Allah (swt) make the days until the marriage easy upon you both, give you both patience and strength.  (I will save the du'aas of marriage until it happens insha Allah :))

As for advice, sister, if I know the brother you are marrying, I know the trick to make him happy :)  I'll email you for details insha Allah.  (A little suspense is good ;)  Besides, you kept me in suspense about who the brother was for longer than you should have :P)

Congratulations once again sister.

Wassalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
sofia
12/08/03 at 08:44:22
[slm] !  :)

[quote]Baraka Allahu lakoma wa baraka 3alaykoma
wa jama'a baynakoma fi khayr insha' Allah [/quote]

yeah.

Just so you know, I was going to post a message asking, "what happened to Barr?" since I hadn't seen as many posts coming from you a few weeks ago...now it aaaalllll makes sense....mabrook. Not that I have a clue who your fiance is (or why it's a secret), but mabrook to him, too. I'm sure he's a lucky man, masha'Allah.

:)
12/08/03 at 08:45:09
sofia
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Twilight
12/08/03 at 09:03:15
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Sis Barr i am sooooo sorry for the late reply  :'( may Allah SWT grant you the happiness and joy you deserve and may you and ***** have a wonderfull marriage......

so when r u gonna let us know who this olay using  ;) guy is

[wlm]
Baji
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Barr
12/08/03 at 11:10:58
[wlm] warahmatullah

Jazakumullahukhairan kathiran jiddan... thank you for the best wishes and du'a.

Yes.. I have been gone for a long while.. not just a few weeks, Sofia... but I think I haven't been posting much since the retreat.. adjusting to what transpired @ the Adirondacks... to the news of the proposal, then engagement, then Ramadan & wedding preparations.. its just 1 big thing after the other, mashaAllah.

[quote]So you're moving to the US huh ??? How do you feel about that - excited/nervous/happy - all of the above  ;) [/quote]

All of the above.. and more :)
I remembered deenb4dunya's thread on Ali's (r.a) quote on winter @ the Shahada Bookstore and one big adjustment that I'd like to tackle (besides the marriage itself ;)) is the CCCC-OLLLLD! Brrrrr! Ya Allah help me... I'm not sure if my british winter experience will help!Better dig up my winter clothes in that 'ol suitcase :) ... whatever's left of it!

So, yes, inshaAllah.. I'll be moving to Canada (not US ;)), umm Ibby. Will be visiting my future in-laws @ Edmonton before flying to Ottawa, inshaAllah.

[quote]i think we all now deserve to know who the lucky guy is [/quote]
[quote]You mean you're not going to tell the rest of us WHO IT IS?  [/quote]
[quote]so when r u gonna let us know who this olay using ;)  guy is[/quote]

Hmmm, who are you guys more interested in? The man I'm marrying or that olay dude? ;)

Shukran, everyone... and Abu_Hamza.. me vill be vaiting for dat e-mail :)

Wassalam  :-*

P.S. Maliha... everytime, I remember about forgetting being human.. I'll go look in the mirror :) Seriously... that is good advise. Shukran :)
12/08/03 at 11:29:20
Barr
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
AyeshaZ
12/08/03 at 11:22:23
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masha'Allah!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) sr.barr alf mabrook!!! This is truly an amazing news!!!
May Allah(swt) have HIS infinite Mercy on you and the brother. ameen

Baraka Allahu lakoma wa baraka 3alaykoma
wa jama'a baynakoma fi khayr insha' Allah

he he moving candada!! yup dig up those winter clothes :)!!

Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
NinthMuharram
12/08/03 at 11:25:33
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Tahniah! Selamat bertunang & early Selamat Pengantin Baru (am I suppose to say some other things  ??? )

The plan was for you to attend my reception and hold one of my husband's hantaran for me (hantaran - exchange of gifts between bride and groom). I am very glad and happy that the reason that plan wont work out is because you'rer becoming a bride yourself!


Alright, I better go book that ticket, InshaAllah I will be there at your wedding.

*hugs*


Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Twilight
12/08/03 at 12:00:01
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[quote author=Barr link=board=bebzi;num=1070534022;start=10#17 date=12/08/03 at 11:10:58]
Hmmm, who are you guys more interested in? The man I'm marrying or that olay dude? ;)[/quote]

Sorry sorry i know / or think i know who the olay guy is i really want to know who ur gonna marry inshaAllah! is the wedding going to be in Canada?

please sis put us out of our misery  ;D

seriously tho lots and lots of {{{{...huuuuuuuuuuuuuugzzzzzzzz...}}}}

[wlm]
Baji
12/08/03 at 12:01:02
Twilight
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
theOriginal
12/08/03 at 12:08:01
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oooooOOOOOOooooo Canada!  Awesome.  This is so cool, sis Barr...

And umm...yeah still waiting on the identity.

Woooh.

Wasalaam.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
eleanor
12/09/03 at 05:58:39
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oh what a surprise!  ;)

That's great news Masha Allah. Now I have someone to visit in Canada if I ever go there  ;D

Don't think I can make the wedding.. it's just a wee bit too far  :'(

Wishing you and Mr X all the best Insha Allah

lotsa love

C.E.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
humble_muslim
12/09/03 at 07:27:56
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Congrats, mashallah I'm very happy for you.  I remember making dua for your marriage, as per your request, when I went to Hajj in 2000, and it looks like it has now been accepted, Alhamdolillah.  May Allah grant you and you mystery spouse great happiness in this world and the hereafter, Ameen.
NS
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Lil_Sista
12/09/03 at 09:19:37
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Mabrook!!! Selamat Menempuh Hidup Baru!!! ;)
im soooo happy for u but......u are gonna be no longer my neighbor  :'( still remember that im in Indonesia,sis???  ;D
above all,may Allah bless ur marriage!!! (ameen)

:-)

ps:yeah who's da lucky man?
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
a_lina
12/10/03 at 01:56:44
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Congratulations Sis.
Welcome to Canada.
hmmmm......Ottawa...that's not too far from Toronto. ;)

....whose the lucky bro.?
[slm] :-)
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
WhatDFish
12/10/03 at 03:42:34
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Mabrouk Sister! mashaa'Allah im REALLY REALLY happy for you!! inshaa'Allah ill be there for your waleemah and will meet up with DA MAN.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Asim
12/10/03 at 09:40:21
Assalaamu alaikum,

Congratulations, Sr. Barr! This is wonderful news. May Allah swt shower His blessings on you both, and make the union a source of love and mercy. Ameen.

Another madina regular getting married... it really makes me happy :)

Now, please don't become a lurker on the board... like the some who got married recently... ;)


Wasalaam.

Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
M.F.
12/10/03 at 15:19:29
Assalamu alaikum sis!!! Mabrouk!!!!!!!!!  ;D ;D ;D  Wow ma sha Allah I'm SOOOOO happy for you.  May Allah bless you and the grape jelly sandwich guy (I don't know who it is, sorry Olay).  Bro, whoever you are, I'm sure you realize what a quality person you're getting as a wife, ma sha Allah. Wow in only... three weeks now :)  I'm SO excited for you.
Jannah, do you know how many people your board has made happy.  May Allah bless and reward you. Ameen.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
jannah
12/10/03 at 17:27:14
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MF nice to hear that hehe :) but the brother is not from the board...

and u know y'all should stop asking about him like the national enquirer...i'm sure if she wanted y'all to know she'd tell u on a one to one basis ;)
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
UmmWafi
12/10/03 at 23:33:34
[slm] my dearest adik

Amidst all the happiness that is overflowing in my heart for your impending marriage, still.....I will miss you much. Very much.

There will be a huge vacuum in this country once you leave and the seat beside me on Friday lunches will be empty, a reminder that you are thousands of miles away.  Silence at the table will indicate that your voice will now come from a small piece attached to a telecommunication contraption, unaccompanied by the way your eyes crinkled with laughter.

Still, despite the miles, our hearts will remain close for one thing remain constant.  I love you very much, fi sabilillah.

Wassalam.
Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
Barr
12/13/03 at 00:03:28
[slm] warahmatullah :)

[quote]I remember making dua for your marriage, as per your request, when I went to Hajj in 2000[/quote]

Subhanallah! :o  [img]http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons/08.gif[/img]:o
Errr.. akhi.. U sure you got the right person? I'm only a board member since Feb 2001. 'Ala kulli hal, I did remember I asked for a du'a from someone going fo haj.. but I really couldn't remember if its this specific du'a. [img]http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons/08.gif[/img]
Nevertheless.. shukran, brother :) Du'as do take a their time :)

And brothers and sisters, a thousand shukran again, for the du'as, and the shared happiness that we feel. I feel so blessed, alhamdulillah.

As Jannah said, the bro isn't from the board ( nor is he an internet junkie like us ;))... He's someone I met offline in real life, with the help of the people I mentioned above, alhamdulillah.

A special note to Ummwafi... as I have shared to some sisters who are distanced by the wideness of this world, yet very close to my heart... the relationship of the arwah/ ruh knows no boundaries nor can it be seperated by vast distances. You will always be in my du'a and in my heart. And your wise words and many naseehah that you have given me all these while will be a part of what I shall remember you of and passed on to others, inshaALlah :)

So... I better stop now before i start all soppy  :'(

Wassalam

P.S. Asim: I think the Lurker Syndrome is catching up on me![sub]help![/sub]

P.P.S. Lil Sis: Of course I remember you :)

P.P.P.S. Mariam: 3 weeks to wedding but months of work still overdue to be completed! yikes!


Re: Coming Soon! Next Change!
humble_muslim
12/15/03 at 22:23:39
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Barr, it was definetly you!  I'm not mistaken... time flies!  You asked me to make dua for you and your friends for all your marriages.  Ring a bell?
NS


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