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| Hospitality vs. Free mixing |
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| buL-buL |
| 02/19/04 at 21:44:09 |
| [slm] Where would you draw the line between the two? We have a relative staying over for about a week and my mom insists that I talk to him. He even told my grandma he thought i was avoiding him....which i was. I didnt accept his marriage proposal in the past, so seeing him now makes me veryyyyy uncomfortable. I gave him my salams at the front door and that was it. I have 4 brothers so i dont think its necessary that I have to do anything. Or should I? [slm] |
| 02/19/04 at 21:49:00 |
| buL-buL |
| Re: Hospitality vs. Free mixing |
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| jaihoon |
| 02/20/04 at 06:16:52 |
| [wlm] You shouldn't. |
| Re: Hospitality vs. Free mixing |
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| onemuslimgirl |
| 02/20/04 at 16:30:33 |
| asalam alakum, your mom probably wants you to talk to him incase you might "change" your mind about him. IF you think you might reconsider the proposal, than talk with him as long as your mehrim is there, and only about things that will give you a better idea of his character, and absolutely no flirting with him or joking around. If you can't image considering his proposal, than try not to be in the house as much as possible, spend time in the masjid, at college, or at a friends house. |
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