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you know you need a break when...
Maliha
02/27/04 at 06:55:16
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...when you find yourself thinking about posts/IM's in the midst of the *real* world, all too real when you are reading the Quran and can't get someone's words off ya mind.

...when you have rubbed many many many souls the wrong way, and your intentions are often misplaced.

...when you turn on the computer and the first thing you do is spontaneously check Emails-Jannah...

...when you find yourself spending wayyyy too much time online, when you should be doing real things..like go to the Masjid or sumthing.

...when you have real Virtual friends..and much too real virtual nemesis  :'(

and the number one reason...

...when your relationship w/ Allah is affected in the process of adding more distractions and madness to your life.

so my beloved bros and sisters...i can never say goodbye to you forever, for I do love you all for the sake of Allah truly ...many like me sunshine :-* and other amazing souls here, taught me what that precious type of love means.

So call this a short term adios...a training for me soul, to strive for tangible things, and extract myself from the virtual world maybe for a minute more or less to enjoy a glimpse of the sunrise, or a walk in the park, or an extra minute in sujood...w/out wondering what the next post will hold.

I ask you all to please forgive me and maybe if you don't dislike me too much..yet.. make duah for this sad soul...

take care Inshaallah:) and May Allah guide us and protect us all from the evils within and without.

PS: I won't be checking me IM's for a while.

Jazakumu Allahu Khayran :-)

Sis still struggling *a lot*,
me.
[wlm]
02/27/04 at 06:58:15
Maliha
Re: you know you need a break when...
theOriginal
02/27/04 at 11:59:04
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Come back soon, inshaAllah!

Thank you for all your help throughout the (wow I think it's been a couple of years already) years.  May Allah bless you for the constant help you have provided me with.  Maybe by the time you return, I'll be on my long break (which I'm coming close to taking, too)...so keep in touch somehow, and take care of yourself.

Wasalaam.

02/27/04 at 11:59:58
theOriginal
Re: you know you need a break when...
gharib
02/27/04 at 19:45:26
[slm] Sister,

May Allah make your "withdrawal" beneficial and rewarding to you and yours.
Jazaki Ellahou Khairan for the many wonderful and inspired contributions you have made, and I pray you will continue making once your "Itikaf" (withdrawal) period is over InShaAllah (God Willing).
You and the many sincere and kind contributors on this board are the vibrant soul of this Ummah-island in these troubled waters.
Many of us see the injustices and lies in the world but few are able to shout them out of their system so eloquently.

May he make you find your balance and always guide you to the straight path.

I pray you and yours will be in Allah's protection.

[wlm]
Re: you know you need a break when...
rkhan
02/28/04 at 01:51:37
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sis Maliha your awesome posts have been one of the reasons why I joined up full time here.. I even flattered myself that we were kindred spirits and was hoping to get to know you better online.

Been wondering tho why you hardly ever post now and now you spring this surprise... Hope you're back from your sabbatical SOOOOn...

May  Allaah keep you well inshallah
Re: you know you need a break when...
paula
02/28/04 at 03:16:07
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Ameen …

Please forgive any offenses Sister

Yes Maliha … your presence shall be missed … however… I’m sure your contributions will echo for much time to come… your expressions address Allah (swt)’s splendor in such a truly soothing way… Subhan Allah.

Yes I believe I got hooked on your contributions right from the start as well… Your efforts with the Purification of the Heart series… the Virtual retreat you brought back to share  … the contemplations of the lost inner child in the pouring rain … Masha’ Allah (truly refreshing).

[center][color=black] Verily, Allah is beautiful & He loves beauty
~ Prophet Muhammad  [saw] ~  [/color][/center]

Alhamdu lillah  …  It sounds like many of us on the board are feeling those inevitable harder moments life has to offer here recently… since November my own responsibility / life load has gotten heavier as well … only Allah (swt) knows when He shall start & stop our more challenging periods & when He opens the door of opportunity for our improvement/ advancement for His sake … May He assist us all in seizing those moments in sincerity with success ...

It Sounds like you’ve taken a smart step in seeking some time to refresh & seeking new immediate goals … May Our Beneficent Creator assist you in your humble pursuit… Insha’ Allah

A truly heartfelt Jazaki Allahu Khairan[/font]
[wlm]
Re: you know you need a break when...
jannah
02/28/04 at 06:59:09
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enjoy ur break maliha.. i know ur under alot of pressure with ur new studies and stuff.. everyone needs a break...this winter has been toooo long..

in fact i'll be taking mine soon.. roadtrip!!! going to nyc and dc... but don't worry y'all the board will stay open inshallah :)
Re: you know you need a break when...
Nisa
02/28/04 at 07:46:14
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Dear sis...your posts have always been a tremendous source of inspiration for me, and I have always read them with extreme pleasure.

May Allah swt make this time easy for you and straighten all your affairs, Ameen.

My love and prayers are with you inshaAllah...I look forward to your return  :-*

[wlm] :-)
Sis Nisa
Re: you know you need a break when...
Nomi
02/28/04 at 08:05:15
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I thought it was a reaction to my IM/reply    :o

Nah!! i'm not the nemesis she mentioned, we've been on good terms since madina survivior... um... even earlier than that. But she was missing some 'balance' thats why this break from the internet i guess  [] .. hehe


[slm] (with lowered gaze)
and much respect
02/28/04 at 08:08:19
Nomi
Re: you know you need a break when...
ltcorpest2
02/28/04 at 12:07:39
Maliha,  Have a great vacation! i hope I was not one of your nemisis's's's's's's.  or is it nemisi?  just remember,  you have touched people and you may never know how.  I think one of the great movies is: It's A Wonderful Life!  Maliha,  you have touched many many people here and I would be one of them.  And remember a sad soul is one who is close to God.  It is the hardening of ones heart that keeps us from God.  (by no means is this statement of faith or theology, just an observation).  I do hope that I/we can hear from you in the near future.

mike
Re: you know you need a break when...
bhaloo
02/28/04 at 15:03:16
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Hurry back, I always enjoy reading your posts as they are filled with great advice. :)


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