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| How is your family? [Limits to Friendship] |
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| Anonymous |
| 03/01/04 at 21:07:54 |
| Do you think asking a freind about her family can be a reason to dislike talking to you? The story is . I have a freind of mine for over three years told me not to pm her because I asked her how her family is doing . we have been very good freinds talking for long time. Almost everyday discusing personal affairs. Politics... religion... jokes*.. for fun some times etc. We used to fight for some silly reasons from time to time but that was a part of our freindship we used to ,and it never had any negative effect on us. She used to tell me all her secrets and and me too .she has a mother who is ill very often and I used to stand beside her with nice words when she is in bad situation . This was one of the things I felt was the good thing we had to care for each other that I am worried when I dont hear from her mother ,when I am busy and not online for 3 or more days ,so I Used to send her sms. This and many other way we used to treat each other made us respect and love each other so much . Whilst we have been as I have mentioned above ,one day we fall out on each other as usual .During this peroid her birthday came ,and I had to wish her and sure I did. Once again we were back to our freindship , but she seemed changed that she talks only for few minuts and tell me she has to go .I thought she is still mad at me but again she treats me the day next very nicely that makes me confused. some times good to me and and some times not. As things were like this and from my side trying yo avoid any misunderstanding to drive to fight she surprised me telling me I am boring peroson because I asked her about her mother and family.She said I talk about some thing she doesnt like to talk about .She said I always ask about her mom and husband and kids.Then I said ok I wont ask you this any more .I was so suprised why she says this .But the other big surprise to me was to tell me not to pm her any more . I tried to ask why but she didnt reply .She ignored me . I sent her an email and she didnt reply to me as well .since then we are not talking to each other It seems it is the end of our freindship. so would you please tell me if asking her about her family, specially her mother is reasonable to cause losing each other ? Should I also react the same way by ignoring her ? Is there a limit freinds to reach at a point of freindship expiration ? so this is what happend ? I Will appreciate your kind replys Thank you all |
| Re: How is your family? [Limits to Friendship] |
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| ltcorpest2 |
| 03/01/04 at 21:44:21 |
| anon, I am assuming that you are female. If you are male and iming someone who is married then I would suggest that you don't. Yes there are limits to friendships and sometimes they end. |
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