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Younger Sibling who is like 20 yrs apart?
Anonymous
03/05/04 at 06:25:43
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I’m a member of this board but I have no idea why I chose to do an anonymous posting. I
visit this site daily but don’t post as often due to some of the extreme views people
have.

But any ways here is my question.
Do any of you have siblings who are like almost 20 yrs apart from you?? And how is it??
What kind of a change does it make in your life?? What kind of effects does it have??

Here is my story, I’m 19 yrs old male. I’m the oldest I’ve a got a few brothers who are
younger then me, a few months back my mom told us she was going to have a baby my moms not
dat old she is like 41, I was all shocked it was a big surprise as my youngest brother is
11 but im slowly overcoming it inshallah. but kinda getting worried about I dont know
what as the baby will come in the next few months. I mean im happy for my parents as my mom
and dad are both really happy about it specialy my mom. and i pray that ishallah
everything goes well any words of advice guys??

thankz
Re: Younger Sibling who is like 20 yrs apart?
jannah
03/05/04 at 06:38:53
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lol we have extreme views but ur asking us for advice?
Re: Younger Sibling who is like 20 yrs apart?
Fozia
03/05/04 at 08:03:57
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My cousin is in the same boat, his mum is expecting in summer he's about 18 tho, I shouldn't think there'd be a problem, you might find you actually enjoy it having a baby around... My br. lurves my ickle nephew (sr's son).

Is there something specific your worried about??

Go with the flow it might not be as bad as you imagine ;)



Wassalaam
Re: Younger Sibling who is like 20 yrs apart?
buL-buL
03/05/04 at 18:48:24
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This happened to my friend recently. She's about 20 and at first was embarassed about her mom having another baby. The baby is now about 2 months and she said it actually bought the family closer....everyone comes home early from work or school just to see the baby.  :D

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Re: Younger Sibling who is like 20 yrs apart?
theOriginal
03/05/04 at 19:25:11
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My younger brother and I are 11 years apart (no siblings in between).  My oldest bro was almost 16 when he was born.  Alhamdulillah, it is really awesome.  My older siblings were really embarrassed when my mom was pregnant, but it completely wore off when he was born.  (I just wanted someone to boss around, and boy! have I bossed him around in his years.  I would make him run downstairs just to change the channel for me...and poor kid, clued in after like 9 years of being alive, lol)..  I think my older brother didn't even mention it to his friends until he invited them to the 'aqiqa, but I guess I can understand that.  Honestly, the little one is the funniest, coolest, most understanding friend I have (shows my mental level, lol), and I canNOT imagine my life without the little punk.  He's a smart kid, and he makes me go skateboarding (falls over laughing each time) when I go back to visit.  :)  (Keeps me real)

Funny story, he called me three days ago and said "Api api api, you know how...you know how when i lived in Canada, everyone had brothers and sisters who weren't old like you guys?  Well, there's this girl in my class here, her brother is REALLY old.  Like REALLY old.  He's almost 30!"  He was so excited, it cracked me up.

InshaAllah, things will really be great.  Oh and congratulations!

Wasalaam.


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