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| Nomi |
| 03/09/04 at 01:48:08 |
| [slm] Just within the previous week a decision was to be taken, a choice was there to be made. Both sisters were 'religious' (quite, religious). Decision also included whether within the family or outside! I was given full authority to choose... no pressure was there whatsoever. Since both 'type' of prospects satisfy what i look for in my future wifey.... so.... i thought i better consider what my parent(s)/guardian think would be better. Like if I have no problems with both ‘type’ then why let my desire or affinity towards someone which came about in 2 or so years, override 24 years relationship with my family! So my mother, grand-dad and aunt suggested one, while my elder bro kept looking at me wearing a teasing smile. I thought for a couple of minutes, closed ma eyes, prayed to Allah and.. SAID YES [] |
| 03/19/04 at 22:59:54 |
| bhaloo |
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| theOriginal |
| 03/09/04 at 13:01:41 |
| [slm] Umm....is that you saying you're getting married? MashaAllah congratulations, bro Nomi! Wasalaam. |
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| Arabian_Princess |
| 03/09/04 at 14:08:46 |
| [slm] :o :-* Congratulations brother nomi :-* Mashallah :) :-X :) May Allah bless ur lives together Wassalam Citrus |
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| BroHanif |
| 03/09/04 at 14:24:23 |
| Please delete me got over excited! |
| NS |
| 03/09/04 at 14:26:34 |
| BroHanif |
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| BroHanif |
| 03/09/04 at 14:25:32 |
| Salaams, :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* WELL DONE, It's about time you got married! Somebodys always looking out for you 'old boy'. Great job, make sure you invite your unlce from the UK. Now if someone else works out that would be truly wonderful! :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Rock on :-] :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* [quote]then why let my desire or affinity towards someone which came about in 2 or so years[/quote] Not quite sure about this I'll have to ask you in person, I may have to get my chappal out on that day. :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Nah just jokin. :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Salaams, :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Hanif :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* |
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| lala |
| 03/09/04 at 14:43:07 |
| [slm] congrats Bro..eventhough I'm blinded now..thanks Hanif uncle! ;-) shuckers now i'm left.. I had relied on you somehow to remain single...sheesh..one by one they go...into the arms of marriedness (JOKE) All the best though! woo HOOOOOO :o salaams |
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| BroHanif |
| 03/09/04 at 18:14:13 |
| Salaams, Nomi, let say this obviously it comes as no surprise that you have a good personality and are much loved on this board. I have good reason to believe that many on this board would long a partner like you. We both know that you are capable of gaining a lot more(Insha-Allah) above all your a good friend and a good sincere brother. I've known you for a long time and I hope things work out for you. Of course I'm a bit gutted just as the single sisters on the board that your only marrying one lass(girl) right now [s]or not them[/s], but who knows what is in store for you tomorrow. I'll keep praying for you know what I said to you (four) and let Allah guide you. Towards your success and your friend in this life and the nx. Salaams Hanif |
| 03/09/04 at 18:15:19 |
| BroHanif |
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| siddiqui |
| 03/09/04 at 19:47:34 |
| [slm] May Allah swt bring both of you together in happiness and khair both in this world and hereafter ameen Congrats bhai :) hey whens the wedding and btw did her Biryani (obviously the"second bestest") skills influence your choice ;) (J/K) [wlm] |
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| paula |
| 03/09/04 at 23:31:33 |
| [slm] [quote]sister JO:Umm....is that you saying you're getting married? [/quote] Smile.... this is worth venturing into the Ikhwan for a post :) Sister lala took the words right out of my mouth... 'blinding news :-*' Congratulations Brother... Yes... May Allah SubHana Wa Ta`ala bring both of you together in happiness & khair both in this world & hereafter ... ameen Very Best Wishes for you Both [wlm] |
| 03/09/04 at 23:39:22 |
| paula |
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| veiled |
| 03/09/04 at 23:46:08 |
| "ALF MABROOK" May Allah bless you with hapiness always and in all ways.Ameen. |
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| timbuktu |
| 03/10/04 at 00:34:08 |
| [slm] mabrook :) when is the big event? and are we invited or do we have to crash in ;) |
| 03/10/04 at 00:37:10 |
| timbuktu |
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| superFOB |
| 03/10/04 at 08:43:11 |
| [slm] I thought you were engaged. So whats this talk about "two" options then? I was wondering what would happen when both nomi and his wife start talking non stop? May Allah put barakah in your union, give you swaleh progeny, and unite you two in al-firdaus. |
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| al-ajnabia |
| 03/10/04 at 15:31:10 |
| [slm] congratulations, but did you inquire about her birani? ;) |
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| theOriginal |
| 03/10/04 at 17:24:17 |
| [slm] Okay seriously...bro nomi, you must clear up the air, because I was ALWAYS under the impression that you are engaged, like bro superFOB was. Like ever since your re-registration ages ago. So is this like an intermediary step that falls between engagement and nikkah? Oh and a smaaaaaaaaaalll piece of advice, I think that you should modify your post, before you get married and make your wife register on the board too...you should say something like "there were two options, but i always KNEW that SHE was THE ONE." lol...total total jokes. I mean who knows, she might be more talented than you are at digging up old posts. :-[ Congratulations once again, brother. Wassalaamu Alaikum. |
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| Nisa |
| 03/10/04 at 18:45:16 |
| [slm] Mabrook bhai! MashaAllah this is such great news :) May Allah swt bless your union, Ameen. [wlm] :-) |
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| faith |
| 03/10/04 at 20:48:08 |
| [slm] mabrouk! congratulations brother! :) oh yeah, you'd better hurry up on doing this: [quote]Oh and a smaaaaaaaaaalll piece of advice, I think that you should modify your post, before you get married and make your wife register on the board too...you should say something like "there were two options, but i always KNEW that SHE was THE ONE." lol...total total jokes. I mean who knows, she might be more talented than you are at digging up old posts. [/quote] salaam, :-) p/s: are we invited? ;) |
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| rkhan |
| 03/11/04 at 01:31:52 |
| [slm] Masha’allah Tabaarakallah! May Allaah bless your marriage with barakaat and bestow your hearts with mercy and love for the sake of Allaah. PS. If you get tired eating biryaani for breafkfast, lunch and dinner, I have the recipe for beef stroganoff. Goes well with a dessert called Umm Ali. Have Umm ibnNomi contact me for details inshallah. :) |
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| Nomi |
| 03/12/04 at 02:59:08 |
| [slm] [tt][size=2] You know folks, i feel soo much loved! And believe me i dont have words to thank you, i think its due to my vocabulary.. heh.. Okay in posting order... To my respected sister JustOne: Thanks alot ukhti. To my litle sis Arabian Princess: Shukran lil sis! To my liberal sis lala :P : jazakallah for sharing my happy moments sis. and you should have expressed your feelings earlier i wont be able to help you now (lol). BTW my brother is still available (oops, me thinks i shouldn't have said that) @ bro Siddique: Thanks yaar and plz remember me in your duas @ simply_sister: Thanks for your duas, i'm always in need of them. You are one of the kindestest sisters here :) @ Vieled: Thanks a bunch sis. @ UNCLE : "meherbani" (shukran) uncle khalid ;). I'll invite all of you, take my word for it. @ GEEKOB: You like to play wise guy huh? Answers ahead... and thanks a million for duas. @ ajnabia: Seriously sis, ur post in here was a nice surprise. Remember me in your duas inashaAllah? @ Nisa : Actually its your post that made me start this thread. First i thought you'll get mad at me!! but i'm weird, thanks a lot "chotee" (lil) "behen" (sis) @ faith: I'll be more than happy to invite you (when the time comes) , its upto you to decide that whether you'll be able to travel without a mehram or not ;) @ rkhan: jazakallah for the offer sis, i think if you can teach her some first-aid techniques then it'll be even better :) @ others: Well you must have made dua you for me... sure you have... and i thank you all for that. jazakumullah. Explanation time eh? I did say in a couple of threads that i'm engaged, at other instances i said i'm not in the pool anymore and at times i said i'm "kinda" engaged. Well it might not be making sense to ppl who dont have roots in subcontinent, yet you desis must understand whats going on!! In simple words... lets say that i am an optimist :P In not so simple words... Nothing was solid before, as mother was like: This cousin or that cousin, this friend's daughter or that friend's daughter and since we think we are religious ppl (my immediate family) so the prospects pretty much were of my kind. Then again, things were not solid. So i was engaged with ~four at a time ::) Astagfirullah... i think what i just said is a stupid comment. Well it wont sound so stupid when you dont take the word 'engaged' in strict sense! Actually the desi culture is "hint" based, If you get my drift? So what has happened now is just a "haan" (a yes). So now i'm sure who the poor girl is, may Allah help her! And its only now that i'm beginning to realize that getting married in this age isn't all that simple. Although a brit uncle suggested something else, so lets see how you guys take it :) Whats next? 1] Laugh at me if you want to but, i need to start taking my life seriously! 2] Start thinking about getting a new car (you dont want her to ride my old car right?) 3] Get officially engaged... hm, you folks must be thinking of me as a goon to announce it when nothing is solid. T'rust me, i wont disappoint you, its solid (um .. did i tell you that in the end it had to be my cousin ;D .. i know i know.. once a desi, always a desi!) 4] Get that car and a separate place to live! be it a portion! 5] um... i feel shy to say it... oh well, time to get married i think. How much time do i need then? 2 years! at least! I'll keep you informed of the happenings (heh). So are you folks with me or with my brit uncle? [slm] ps: sis JO, thanks for the tip. Its just that she is NIL when it comes to IT and i'll make sure it stays that way till the big day! Like how am i gonna impress her if she already knew stuff that i'm good at (hehe) pps: uncle Hanif, i told my mother what you said to me about ~four~ on the phone. She took it as a joke but if i tell her that you said it again, then you wont be able to attend my marriage :P .... heh j/k [quote author=BroHanif link=board=bro;num=1078814888;start=0#4 date=03/09/04 at 14:25:32] Salaams, :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* Hanif :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* [/quote] And THANKS for the kisses [:-*] man. How the hell am i gonna take all this lipstick off my face now ??? What if "she" sees me like this ??? Man these brits are sooo PDA! [/size][/tt] |
| 03/12/04 at 07:39:08 |
| Nomi |
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| readagain |
| 03/12/04 at 13:37:40 |
| [slm] Alhamdulillah brother im soooo happy for u...Mashallah...and i was in that confused group too who thought that u were already engaged (we just have a really good memory :) ) but mashallah...thats really good that now u know Inshallah who your spouse will be and you can plan out ur life as much as u can...Inshallah everything will go well...but seriously, Trust me..u DO NOT wanna stay engaged for 2 years :P...not even kidding..thats not smart...by the time ill get married ill be engaged for almost 2 years and I know it causes problems..it just does..i think everone shld get their nikkah done and call that engagement..altho a lot of desi parents are not comfortable with that idea (and i understand why) but i m not gonna do that to my kids..(inshallah) so yeah bottom line..try if u guys can have the nikkah done and not just engagement.. congrats again... :) [wlm] :-) |
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| Doha_03 |
| 03/12/04 at 22:10:20 |
| slm, Mabrook big bro! Alhamdulilah I am so happy for you! You have helped me many times and I cannot thank you enough for all that you have done. May Allah help you and bless you with a wonderful marriage life! Ameen. You deserve the best of the best bro! Wasalaam, Doha |
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| jaihoon |
| 03/13/04 at 09:10:11 |
| [slm] mabrook, ya akhi. Cant believe i almost missed such a terrific news. So when's the wedding going to be? And is there going to be henna for the bride ? ;) |
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| Maliha |
| 03/13/04 at 09:24:18 |
| [slm] Mabrook bro Nomi :) May Allah put mad barakah in your union:) yeah i'm with readagain...long engagements are nothing but drama. take care and may Allah ease your affairs. :) [wlm] |
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| jannah |
| 03/15/04 at 01:28:41 |
| [wlm] congratulations bro.. i too remember u saying u were engaged a long time ago.. but alhamdulillah may Allah bring you both together in khair inshallah |
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| gift |
| 03/15/04 at 07:31:30 |
| [slm] Mabrook bro - may Allah 'azza wa jall bless your union with much happiness, and join you both in Jannatul Firdaus [wlm] |
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| Twilight |
| 03/15/04 at 11:57:11 |
| [slm] :-*Mabrook bhai :-*, may you be happy always inshaAllah...maaan wish u were havin the weddin this summer i've got 4 weeks holiday from work booked and am just waitin for confirmation of the flights out...... ;) [wlm] Baji |
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| Lil_Sista |
| 03/16/04 at 07:05:17 |
| [slm] Mabrook!!! what a great news! mashAllah.finally!!! :D May Allah bless your marriage.wish I could go to the wedding ;) :-) |
| 03/16/04 at 07:06:38 |
| Lil_Sista |
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| yumna |
| 03/16/04 at 10:49:08 |
| [slm]ya Allah i missed soo much when did this happen ?? :Danyway good 4 u brother and congratulations!!m really happy i came on bebzi stand after a very loong time so not really aware wats goin on ??? anyway my duas with u big bro! may Allah bless ur life with happiness an joy ! |
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| Nomi |
| 03/19/04 at 21:58:55 |
| [slm] [tt] [size=2] Righto, first thing first :) Sis Readagain: (u must be really dull that u hafta read things again and again to get em eh?), Seriously, a much appreciated advice and jazakiAllahu Khayrun for that respected sis. Sis Doha: hm... a clown like me can even be beneficial for some? I dint know :). Your post was really cute and since many of us like being praised so "you made my day" ;). Now for the things that matter most, 1] arrange a mehram if you want to attend the gala 2] jazakAllah for your duas (hey just between you and me, um.. how should i put it.... actually shes is kewl (not sure whether shes best of the best or not... hey but i sure am, no? :) :) ) ) Ya Habibi Jaihoon: "tung na ker yaar" (dont mess) :). I've already got a dozen male and another dozen female cousins to convince for not causing any trouble like the hannah night and other controversial stuff. Nkt to mention another dozen uncles and aunties! Did i tell you that there indeed were *two* hannah nights at my sis's wedding, although me and my bro tried to convince them all but they dint listen. Dont worry we dint boycott it, just served the food etc and stayed out of it (if you get what i mean). So a note for those you'll be attending (Uncle Hanif and Uncle Khalid are confirmed btw), although i try to prove here that i'm the best muslim on face of earth (which i'm not) but i've got all kinds of relatives, so dont call me a hypocrite if you see "things" on my wedding. sis Nur_al_Night: Alhamdulillah, at last you replied :). Start saving your cents, in two years you'll save enough to attend inshaAllah. erm... sis jannah: yo! thankyou ... And happy birthday. sis Attia: May Allah reward you abundantly for your duas, arrange a hubby in two years time inshaAllah to be able to attend the day :) sis Baji: Oh i wish i could (eeps, shouldn't have said that) But you can get another leave after two whole years, no? Lil_Sista: yeah finally ;). jazaks for your special duas.. actually i need more of them, plz? yumna: It was under consideration since long, now its finalized, so thats the story in short. BroHanif knows all the details so contact him if anyone wants more on this. And jazaks a million*million for you duas. And BroHanif it seems that you've won, sis readagain hit the nail in the head, dint she? And now that sis Nur_al_Day also got bribed by you so ... i'll try getting nikahfied rather than in-gag-age (d) ;) And folks me was thin-king... actually i'm to get a new car in about 3 months time inshaAllah. Riba free loan approved from my mother (heh). She is willing to trust me and lend me some money inshaAllah. So what i was thin-king is DOWRY. Did i tell you that my paternal grand-dad along with many many other things gave a car as a gift to one of my aunts at her wedding? hm... should i buy that car now then? ::) ... ok, ok.. i guess i'm sounding real ugly now. It was just a thought that i can spend that same money on refurnishing the "other two" houses that we own so that we can move there!! Right now they are not in good condition and It should be on higher priority 2, yeah? Is moving all that necessary, like there are many many benefits of joint families, along with some problems but plus points out number them, no? Anywho, to tell you the truth i do expect something in dowry, like my H.D.D (at home) is only 2.1 Gig, she should bring atleast a 20 Gigs Hard-disk with her. Not to mention the RAM... 128 isn't good enough, like i can make a TV out of my monitor by getting TV tuner card but she should bring a 128 MB RAM in dowry otherwise we'll have to cancel the marriage ::) Come on, i dint ask for that much, did i? [slm] -An ugly desi [/size] [/tt] |
| 03/19/04 at 22:12:32 |
| Nomi |
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| WhiteSomali |
| 03/19/04 at 22:14:25 |
| [slm] Bro, Mabrook :) Nomi good job you finally gettin married. And before me too, my goodness, first the thing in the Health Club now dis ;) I can still jump higher than u tho 8) You in my prayes bro. [slm] |
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| bhaloo |
| 03/19/04 at 22:58:18 |
| [slm] Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. :) |
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| BroHanif |
| 03/20/04 at 09:28:36 |
| Salaams, [quote]although i try to prove here that i'm the best muslim on face of earth (which i'm not) but i've got all kinds of relatives, so dont call me a hypocrite if you see "things" on my wedding[/quote] As long as you don't start that stupid tradition of firing AK-47s into the air that should be ok. And as long as the women don't do a pitee on you i..r rub some coloured yellow dye on your body from head to toe and your sitting on this chair looking like Dufus. Man all those women massaging you, phew...anway don't worry about it I'm sure things will work out [quote]Is moving all that necessary, like there are many many benefits of joint families, along with some problems but plus points out number them, no? [/quote] Stay with your current famaily for a time that way its easier on the finances, if the wife finds it ok. That way you can do the hosue up and take things easy. [quote] Anywho, to tell you the truth i do expect something in dowry, like my H.D.D (at home) is only 2.1 Gig, she should bring atleast a 20 Gigs Hard-disk with her. Not to mention the RAM... 128 isn't good enough, like i can make a TV out of my monitor by getting TV tuner card but she should bring a 128 MB RAM in dowry otherwise we'll have to cancel the marriage[/quote] Responsibilites old boy. Its now time to forget the hard drive but to buy a washing machine, fridge freezer etc. Forget the dream of playing Doom 3 and Half Life 2. Look forward to shopping for electrical items and houseware products. Much better! Salaams, Hanif |
| NS |
| 03/20/04 at 09:29:20 |
| BroHanif |
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| faith |
| 03/20/04 at 09:44:57 |
| [slm] i'm sorry brother, but i don't agree with this extended family concept of staying in the same house... for the simple reason of privacy: men normally don't think about this, but its quite important for us women, especially muhajibba women. We women have to stay covered even in front of our husbands' brothers, for they are not our muhrims...what more if our husbands' married sisters with their husbands...definitely a no..no...please don't place hardship on us women, by making us wear the hijaab at home... :( and there will be occassions, unintentional, where the 2 (non-muhrims) will be left alone in the house, say if 1 is ill and another has to stay home for whatever reason... (the hadith of, when a man and a woman is alone, the 3rd is shaytaan)...creating fitna in the house... remember our Prophet's [saw] hadith: "the brother in-law is like death" (don't have the exact quotation, inshaAllah when i find it. btw, the hadith is akin to one saying, the lion is like death, i.e. dangerous). [modified later: i found it, with the explanation of the hadith as well: www.islamonline.net/fatwa/english/FatwaDisplay.asp?hFatwaID=77454 spend the money...even if you can only afford a little plain abode... peace :-) |
| 03/20/04 at 12:27:23 |
| faith |
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| IMuslim_4Ever |
| 03/20/04 at 20:09:44 |
| [slm] all the beautiful comments, lines, words are said.... what can i say that might add to ur joy?? :) just "Good luck bro" Alhumdulillah its a great news... and May you have a blessed marriage life... Remember: Women are like Sun and Men are like moon... so treat ur wife as if she is ur sun... :) ma salaama |
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| tahirah |
| 03/22/04 at 12:39:27 |
| as salaamu 'aalikum wa rahamtullahi wa barakaatu, maa'sha Allah, mabrook bro! I'm so happy for you! may Allah Ta'ala Grant you both love and mercy in your marriage. the lucky bride must be a wonderful muslima :)...hey, as long as the car works right ;), heheheh (but im sure she would appreciate a newer one as a sign of your "getting serious", so may Allah Ta'ala Help you on this endeavor) ma'a salaama, tahirah |
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| UmmWafi |
| 03/23/04 at 00:13:45 |
| [slm] Mabrook bro Nomi on this happy news. May Allah SWT continue to Preserve you in the best of iman till your wedding day and may He then Bless your union with Strength and Wisdom to navigate a lifetime of worship to Him. Amin. Wassalam |
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| Trustworthy |
| 03/24/04 at 00:28:30 |
| [slm] No WAY!! Get out!! MAA....SHAA...ALLAAAAHHHH!!!!!! I come back to the boards and find Br. Nomi settling down (for real this time). I undertand when you say you're engaged, it's a may be. In my culture, you're engaged like at least 4 times before it's official. Mabrook. The BEST and ALWAYS May ALLAH Bless. Advice.... You keep her smiling and she'll keep you smiling. Never let Allah out of your path. Congrats again!!! Ma-asalaama..... |
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