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| Was I way to honest? |
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| Caraj |
| 05/08/04 at 14:34:18 |
| I doubted a friend, well I considered the person a friend even though I had only knew them over the pc. But I had always cared for this person even though I never met her. Admired her for her strength in hard times. Now I have been through a lot in my own life and find I have a hard time trusting people at times. But I never doubted this person, except for a brief time recently. I felt concerned and asked a mutual aquaintence if this person was for real. I was told yes. I asked that the conversation be kept confidencial. However in my heart I always feel bad when I am not in the right and at times (I am told) way to honest. So I went to this person and told her what I had done, asked for forgiveness for doubting her. She said she forgives me but now won't talk to me anymore. I really feel bad this has happened but I don't feel bad I was honest. Was I being to honest? If the shoe was on the other foot, yyes I would feel a little offended but I would understand. |
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| ltcorpest2 |
| 05/08/04 at 18:41:08 |
| Kinda not sure exactly what happened. But if people do not want to talk anymore then i guess it wasn't that big of a friendship. Still not all that sure of friendships over the internet anyways. |
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| jannah |
| 05/12/04 at 01:18:59 |
| It's human to sometimes not trust someone. It's also human to feel hurt when someone doesn't trust us. I think when either side doesn't trust then perhaps you didn't have the relationship you thought you did and can develop something else or just leave it where it is.. |
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