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Can we hate a fellow Muslim? |
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Anonymous |
10/14/04 at 20:07:02 |
Salams i have a muslim workmate, i do not really like. i have had many problems with this person and have been extremly hurt deeply by this person. now ramadan is coming i dont know how to get over it, to get away with feelings of hatred towards this person. i feel like i am in grieving process the feelings wont go away what makes it worse this person appears to be happy i dont want any kind of involvement with this person, i just want to forget what happened between us, i just need help to forget and not to hate this person so much ma`salam |
Re: Can we hate a fellow Muslim? |
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Bangachi |
11/02/04 at 17:44:06 |
We can choose to hate...he must have hurt you deeply. A friend of mine from Dacha lives with his brother and a some kind of cousin. The cousin is always spreading gossip,doesn't clean after himself, and is somewhat selfish. My friend is so angry it's making him sick. Like your friend this man is happy too! He is unaware his behavior is hurtful so I suggested to my friend don't let this man rent space in your head. pray for guidance ..it's hard I know but hate breeds hate which is why you must forgive your muslim brother. This is the message given to Muhammad peace unto him. We may all be muslims...but we are all individuals with different personality's. Love him but don't allow him to cross your boundaries...guilt free! |
Re: Can we hate a fellow Muslim? |
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georger |
12/17/04 at 01:41:05 |
[quote author=Anonymous link=board=madrasa;num=1097795222;start=0#0 date=10/14/04 at 20:07:02]Salams i have a muslim workmate, i do not really like. i have had many problems with this person and have been extremly hurt deeply by this person. now ramadan is coming i dont know how to get over it, to get away with feelings of hatred towards this person. i feel like i am in grieving process the feelings wont go away what makes it worse this person appears to be happy i dont want any kind of involvement with this person, i just want to forget what happened between us, i just need help to forget and not to hate this person so much ma`salam [/quote] Hate is such a strong word. It can inflict so much suffering. The problem seems to be the other person. Does he/she seem bitter, hateful or otherwise unplesasnt? Don't let them get too close to you, but keep an open line of communications to them. They might simply be frustrated and lonely. |
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