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| Nikah on Friday, lost today |
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| IMuslim_4Ever |
| 11/17/04 at 13:22:04 |
| [slm] Question for the married ones: do you guys feel really really really really :( feel like :'( ing a week or days before nikah? Well, :'( :'( :'( :'( thats how i feel right now. i am sooooooooo depress!!! my situation is really bad cuz my family won't be there. my dad (my dad is ok about my husband to be), and more than half of my families are overseas, and for the rest of them who are here, they do not like my choice so they won't come. :( i feel so lonely. my husband to be feel so bad too... he is more depress than i am cuz he sees my state and does not know how to help. he tries his best. alhumdulillah, i am lucky to have him. Mashaallah he is religious, and good for my deen. that was/is my reason for choosing him. my family has other reasons that i do not agree with. i posted in Jannah before about these issues and after almost 2 years of separations/and getting back together again, we have decided to get our nikah done. According to elder non family advisor this is a good way to save us from any harm. Inshaallah, all i want from all of you in this message board to say dua for us. we need dua to start this new way of life. we are going to live in the same house from December inshaallah. and i need your duazzz plzzzz and any tips from newly wed/married couple will be appreciated. jazakallah kheir ma salaama |
| Re: Nikah on Friday, lost today |
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| timbuktu |
| 11/17/04 at 17:49:37 |
| [slm] I am glad for you. Insha`Allah your family will come around. Focuss on the deen, and your duties, and be happy. We must take what is halal in this world.. May you and your husband (to be) be blessed in this world and in the hereafter. aameen |
| 11/17/04 at 17:57:32 |
| timbuktu |
| Re: Nikah on Friday, lost today |
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| cba |
| 11/17/04 at 21:43:01 |
| [slm] May Allah swt make every thing easy for you sister. Keep in mind everything happens with the will of Allah. So don't worry everything will be ok. I hope and pray that this upcoming bond will lead you two closer to Allah swt InshAllah. [wlm] |
| Re: Nikah on Friday, lost today |
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| sundoc |
| 11/18/04 at 12:21:59 |
| [slm] sis, Indeed Allah SWT is with those who are patient... and so you can be sure that He will be with you. Alhudmulilah you're working towards fulfilling a great sunnah and when we do this there can never be any wrong in it, afterall we put our trust in Allah and whom better to trust than the controller of hearts!! Inshallah He in His Infinite Wisdom will make only the best happen for you and your husband and in time all will settle down to the way its to be... May Allah be pleased and grant the both of you the best in this life and the highest ranks in Jannah, ameen. |
| Re: Nikah on Friday, lost today |
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| Bangachi |
| 11/20/04 at 04:02:50 |
| You are truly been given a gift from Alah to have such a wonderful husband. Alot of sisters wish this...of course it's normal to be nervous and sad that your family can't be there..perhaps you can make a video tape so that they may share in your joy from afar |
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