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in times of trials...duahs needed.
Maliha
02/05/05 at 12:26:46
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My mom has recently been diagnosed with Cancer...they aren't sure if its ovarian or the lining of her stomach.

They will be doing surgery soon followed by rounds of chemotherapy if needed.

I am at a loss of words or feelings to describe this trial our family is going through.

If i could be selfish enough to ask for a moment of your time in Salaat, reflection or dhikr...please make duah for her well being; strength; and Mercy from the Healer of All Healers.

Kheir Inshaallah.
[wlm]
02/05/05 at 12:45:26
Maliha
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed
timbuktu
02/05/05 at 12:52:33
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Sorry to hear of that, sister. Inshallah she will be well soon.

The prophet [saw] said black seeds are a cure for every disease, except old age.

so is honey. and the prophet [saw] used to take honey.

I think the method is one teaspoonful of honey dissolved in half to one teacup of water, warm enough to be sipped comfortably. This on an empty stomach. i.e: first thing in the morning and also without taking anything at least half an hour after taking this.

second, olive is mentioned in the Quran, and I read somewhere a long time ago that the Japanese have a low incidence of stomach cancer, because their food includes olive oil. So, that article recommended one spoonful of olive oil.

If you check it out, and this thing about olive oil is confirmed, or if olive oil has no detrimental effect in the view of your mom's doctors,  perhaps she could take this as well.

I will be making duas, inshallah.
02/05/05 at 13:02:35
timbuktu
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed.
theOriginal
02/05/05 at 14:21:23
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May Allah ta'Ala grant her complete shifa and a speedy recovery.  InshaAllah...

I'm sorry to hear about this Maliha.  My duaas are definitely with you and your family.  Is there anything else I can do to ...help?  Seriously...

*hugglez*

Wasalaam.
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jannah
02/05/05 at 16:42:11
slm,

inshallah we'll make dua for her.. :( let us know if you need anything...

wlm,
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IMuslim_4Ever
02/05/05 at 23:14:18
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Inshallah this time of trial will pass sister.  May Allah [swt] cure your mother, ameen.  

I will remember her in my prayer.  Sis, plz stay strong.  Allah [swt] will help you and rest of your family.... inshaallah

Take care

ma salaama
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tq
02/06/05 at 02:24:17
Assalamo elikuim

Our duas are with you and your family.
Please do let us know if you need anything .


Wasalam
tq
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed.
UmmWafi
02/06/05 at 21:46:11
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My dearest sister,

I didn't know....all those times I keep wanting to go online and was too exhausted to do so...U were in pain..

Dearest Rainbow remember how u were one of my pillar of strength when I went through the same thing last year ? Well, I am here for you, in every way and in every sense.  

I will make mad du'aat for her and u as a family too so that all of you will be granted strength to get through this.

Last year, I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks after my mom was diagnosed with cancer and I told u that it is Allah's way of making me appreciate Life and Living.  Alhamdulillah my mom survived the surgery and she is due for her 2nd radiatioactive iodine treatment this 28 Feb. Alhamdulillah she is alive to undergo these treatments.

Remember what we said ? Ur mom is really one strong woman (think no nausea) and she will be stronger after this experience Inshallah. And so will u be. A stronger daughter, stronger mommy and a stronger Muslim. I'd bet my last dollar on that (if its halal  ;) ).

Please believe that this is Allah's way of telling YOU that your life and living it will get even more precious. I look forward to your spiritual growth...

Love you very much fissabilillah...will call u soon. Lemme just get a dang card :)

Lots of hugs and love for u and ur mom
Your Sunshine


Wassalam
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Mona
02/06/05 at 21:49:11
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i will remember your mum in my duas insha'Allah.  may Allah give her a full recovery soon.  

take care
wassalam

mona
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siddiqui
02/06/05 at 22:38:35
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May Allah swt give her shifaa -e-kulli ameen
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Fozia
02/07/05 at 10:39:35
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Inshallah your family will be in my duaa's also.

Love & Duaas

Wassalaam
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gift
02/07/05 at 11:28:00
[slm] Ukhti,

May Allah swt give you and the rest of your family sabr.  You are all in my dua's inshallah.

Take care,
[wlm]
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ummnajmah
02/07/05 at 14:57:25
[slm] Sis, You are in my dua sis. May Allah(SWT) give your family patience and courage to go through this and enable your Ummi to recover. Amin. UmmNajmah.
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lala
02/07/05 at 22:34:31
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May Allah swt bless you and yours...InshaAllah your mom and family are in my duas..

Do let us know if you need any information on such things/resources/anything!

much love
salaam
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bhaloo
02/07/05 at 23:57:11
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Sorry to hear this.  May Allah (SWT) help you and your family and cure your mother.  AMEEN.

My mother had stage 4 (advanced state) of ovarian cancer a little over 5 years ago.  Alhumdullilah she survived.  There was some experimental drugs that had come out that really helped after the surgery and during the chemotherapy.  I think it was called gemzar.
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Trustworthy
02/08/05 at 01:58:11
[slm] Sweetie....

This is going to be a difficult one for you and your family, especially you.  If you need anything, anything, just IM me and we can talk personally on the phone or whatever you need.  I have been through the same with a family member and I was one of those that hid it all inside....I was baiscally in denial.

Mom needs you to be strong for her and lots of du'as and salaat helps.  You and your family will be in my du'as.  Just remember Allah (SWT) no matter how hard and difficult it may get.  Always remember Allah (SWT).

Ma-assalaamh and take care.  Allah (SWT) bless and have mercy on us all....ameen.

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Shahida
02/08/05 at 07:31:43
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Something made me open this thread today, instead of the hundreds of others I have not read...

Sub7anAllah...I am very sorry to hear this Nur.  Your mom and your entire family will be in my prayers.  Allah is most Merciful, and He swt does not put a burden on us, more than we can bare.  May Allah grant your mom strength and complete recovery, and you and your family all you need to get her through this difficult time.  

Will get my family and friends to pray as well, inshaAllah, khair!

Ameen to everyone's Duaas
Wasalam and best prayers
Your sis
Shahida :-)
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed.
rkhan
02/08/05 at 10:30:24
May Allaah grant you and your family aafiyah, I feel for you maliha

...my duas as ever
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Barr
02/10/05 at 18:18:53
[wlm] warahmatullah,

Afwan, ya ukhti... I seem to be out of touch with a lot of things, huh?

InshaAllah, you and family are in our duás. May this test be part of your  journey as well as your family's...to much nearness to Al Khaliq, As-Shifaq.

Stay in much sabr & strength.
In my duas
:::Barr:::
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed.
Ameera15
02/10/05 at 18:31:13
Dear sister, I feel for you! May Allah give you patience and cure your mother!You are in my dua's!
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Maliha
02/13/05 at 09:38:43
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Jazakumu Allahu Khayr for all the heartfelt duahs and tips.

bhaloo i am glad you shared that about your mom...it really gives me hope. They diagnosed my mom at stage 3.c. out of 4. But the doc said most patients are diagnosed late due to the hardship of detecting this particular type of cancer.

I am writing to request more duahs as tommorow they are doing a major surgery on my mom. Inshaallah after this they will start chemo and stuff.

Please keep her in your duahs and may Allah reward you all (amin).
[wlm]
Re: in times of trials...duahs needed.
se7en
02/18/05 at 19:12:38
as salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullah,

I am so sorry to hear this news :(  May Allah nourish your hearts with sabr, strength, calmness and courage during this time.  I ask that Allah use this illness as a means of purification for your mom and for your whole family, by which sins fall away and the path to Jannah is made easier.

Lots of duaas coming your way from both me and abu_hamza..

wasalaamu alaykum


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