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| Having diificult time wid mother |
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| IslamLover |
| 08/24/05 at 14:19:22 |
| Asalam Sisters, I have a bit of a problem and wanted some advice from u sisters. i am the only sister so you may think that me and my mother are close but thats where u ar wrong. All my life i havent really been tat close to my mother but now tat i am growing up i feel that my mum is controlling my life, she is really making my life difficult she always puts me down and critizies me and i knw tat u may be finkin tat all mothers do tat but my mum has always been doing it she has never said anything good abt me or praised me if i did something good and cos of all this it has made me want to keep my distance wid her. Wat shud i do cos she is tat sort of person tat thinks abt gettin wat she wants and never finks abt wat others wnt or feel or wat wud mak them happy. All of this is making my life really hard and its making me feel angry, upset and emotional. Wat shud i do? Shabana xx |
| Re: Having diificult time wid mother |
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| Fozia |
| 08/24/05 at 16:17:58 |
| [slm] How old are you?? There'll come a time when you leave home anyway, and perhaps the old adage will come true and absence will make both of your hearts grow fonder of one another. Otherwise, treat you mother with kindness and patience, it is one of Allah's Commandments and the beloved Prophet [saw] has also asked it of us. How close are you to your father?? Perhaps he can help or your siblings maybe they can step in and help you out if things get very bad. Mean time pray to Allah [swt] that never fails. Love & Duaas |
| 08/24/05 at 16:20:24 |
| Fozia |
| Re: Having diificult time wid mother |
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| IslamLover |
| 08/24/05 at 17:25:11 |
| Asalam, 2 be honest wid u i aint tat close to my father either but i cud never tell him or my brothers abt it they wudnt understand. im 18 years nearly 19. i fink to myself tat it is hard enough been an only sister but havin a mum lik mine does not help. im jus scared tat she will control my life and i will not get a say in anything tat involves me, if i didnt agree on marry some1 she wud never forgive for saying no and will hold a grudge against me cos of it. Thanx 4 ur advice IslamLover xx |
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