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| Ramadan & Problems with family |
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| Anonymous |
| 09/29/05 at 11:43:57 |
| salams if one is depressed before ramadan and knows problems will be worse during ramadan waht should one do i cannot go into the nature of my problem, but its stems from large family, one bathroom too many relatives coming and not to mention all that cooking things get worse every year, i have tried talking to my family but no one understands, its like am from another planet |
| Re: Ramadan & Problems with family |
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| jannah |
| 09/29/05 at 12:54:12 |
| wlm, you MUST make time for yourself otherwise ur Ramadan will sux, trust me i know. set out some goals and resolutions now and inform everyone in your family. like u'll go to taraweeh every night or you are trying to read the Quran, this is so they know you have some goals and will give you some space. also you have to CUT OUT any extra things that ur doing currently to make room. it's a small sacrifice to make in order to have a good ramadan. |
| Re: Ramadan & Problems with family |
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| Mona |
| 10/01/05 at 09:27:34 |
| [slm] I don't know what to say. Make lots of sincere dua that you able to overcome hardship at home. Insha'Allah you will be rewarded for every act of patience and perseverence with your family. Like jannah said, set aside a time for yourself. In hte middle of the night, get up to do some qiam, and salat. You will enjoy the solitude with Allah. May Allah ease your situation - ameen. salam Mona |
| Re: Ramadan & Problems with family |
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| Anonymous |
| 10/07/05 at 00:30:26 |
| Jazak Allah Khair sisters I am trying to be patient but its so hard, i decided to stay on my own in my room, to avoid tv and backbiting. it makes me really sad because i feel like whats happening around me is a waste of time. i just hope that next ramadan i am in my own home prefabily married because that would be easier on my faimly. please pray for me i can make the most of this month, i have asked Allah SWT to protect my fast in perticular from frustration. i have also set myself small goals to try to get back on track and closer to Allah SWT. but i jsut cant help dreading everyday and feeling sad please pray for me and my family |
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